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As a proverb goes that a friend indeed is a friend in need, I prefer a friend that will help me when I am in troube(trouble)还是用need好吧,需要的时候不一定就是有trouble的时候 to the one (prefer to要一致prefer a friend 后面to 也要泛指不能特指the one,改成one)only aim for having fun with me. To substantiate my standpoint, three reasons are listed below.
Priorily(Priorly), making friends is a process of learning absorbing吸取更好一些吧 good characters and qualities from others. Life is没有is吧 just likes a mirror, a friend's behavior reflects what we lack and need ourselves. Thus, a friend who is willing to help us when we are in need is beneficial to our personal development because we can learn some experience and good characters from such a friend. For example, the friend I treasure most, Lucy, is always giving me advice and try her best to 改成spend no effort to好一些 solve my problems. And in fact, I've learned a lot from her intelligence. On the contrary, owning a friend who is reluctant to help you when you have troubles, or even blame on your fault is not worth treature(treasure).
In the second place In addition前面没有in the first place, choosing a real friend who will give a hand when a person is in dilemma is an accumulation of one's social resource. As we all know, a well-being interpersonal relationship plays an important role in making decisions nowadays. Under this circumstance, the defination(definition) of a true friend is not only a person who is at your companion but also who helps you to get rid of difficulties. From my own experience, once I needed money badly, my firend(friend) supported me a lot finacially(financially), and moreover, he helped me get my first job. I am very thankful for his help and I regard him as the best friend in my life.
Admittedly, some people argue that friendship should not be related to persuing(pursuing) one's profit, especially in the modern society. They insist that sharing interest with friends is better than helping each other. Though there are many people chasing their own goals by making use of their closest friends, what I claim for is that choosing a friend does not mean only to get profits from one's删去 friend. Generally speaking, everyone has the responsibility to make friends in a sincere heart and it is more essential to choose a friend who is ardent when others in need.
To conclude, a friend who is willing to help when we are in trouble is more welcome than someone who only has fun with us every day. Furthermore, we can enrich ourselves by learning good qualities from them and develop a better social resource. That is to say it is more important to choose friends that could help you when you are in dilemma than choose friends that could only share common interests with. |
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