When(What) would you choose if you were given two options? face(Face)-to-face communication or distant communication, such as letters,email, or telephone calls(个人觉得如果举例子就两个都举，如果只举一个显得有点不平横)?Were I supposed to answer this question, I would say I prefer the former, since there are some conspicuous advantages(根据yaoshuming说的，可以把后面那句话加到这里，就是“, which are listed below,”) indicating that the former outweighs the latter. The reasons are listed below.
To begin with, face-to-face communication is a way of contact existed in this world as long as the human history. Not to mention the ancestors using this type of method to construct the civilization about thousands of years ago, currently the face-to-face communication, which is also called direct communication,contributes a lot to our daily life, it(. It) is straightforward and easy to understand by people involved in this communication,say(个人观点：say不是很正式，口语用的较多，不过既然是德克大牛人说的，那就这样吧), conversation between two people. However(同意yaoshuming，用Moreover这种表示更深一层的词更好), the communication through the untraditional ways of letters, emails,or telephones, all of which (are?) based on the technological development, is(这里应该用单数还是复数我不太清楚) dubious and hard to transit the actual meaning intended to be transmitted. Take my own experience for example(Take sb./sth. for example是一整句话，后面应该用句号), when I was interviewed, I will use the guestures to express my desire(I would always tend to use gestures to express my desire); my voice will(would) convey the confidence(my confidence更好一些吧) which can never be seen through a piece of paper,(这里用--更合适) the resume.The employer can also judge my credibility by observing my eyes, a scientific experiment has proved that when people lied, they always look up leftside direction.So, I guess this face-to-face communication is do good to both of the party, employer or applicant.
Another virture(virtue) of the face-to-face communication is that this mean is not expensive for most of us and can utterly(在阐述理由的时候用这种太绝对的词不太好，显得太extreme，不过在讲述事情的时候可以用) avoid misunderstanding. Normally,letters need the stamps, email needs computers and internet, telephone calls need the telephone equipments(注意parallel，要不就在stamps, computers, Internet, telephone前面都加the，要么就都不加，在这里不加比较好), whereas the face-to-face communication need only you and other people be involved in. In this kind of low-cost conversation, you can speak as long as you want to(没有to), without the worries(without worrying) about the expense. Admittedly, some misunderstanding can be avoided by this method, for example(当for example后面是一句话的时候，for example应该另起新的一句话。), when you use the letters or other indirect ways of communication, the language always don't include all the feeling you have, and if you want the interaction immediately, this is not possible unless you choose face-to-face.
To sum up, there is more advantages when one choose the face-fo-face communication, since it is convenient, explicit, and more relax(Parallel... relax is a verb. By the way, did you explain why you think communicate face-to-facially is relaxing?). I believe that this kind of communication will not change a lot and be progamatic now and forever. It is beneficial for our daily life.
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发表于 2007-7-7 09:49:00
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