[0819-综合]如果你的朋友在某门课需要帮助,而你是这门课的牛人。问你认为你朋友找你帮忙好还是找专门的tutor帮忙好 We all have the experience of facing with complex problems that we cannot handle by ourselves. At that time, I would like to turn to my friend who is good at the subject to seek for some help. If I were the friend who is good at this, I would be glad if my friend ask me for help since it represents that he trusts me.
The first thing comes to my mind is that turning to friend to seek help on lessons will strengthen our friendship. As we spend more time discuss about the questions, we could better know and help each other even though I am little better than him on this subject. Sometimes, it is inevitable that we may argue about the exercise because we hold different opinions. However from my perspective, friendship does not mean we must be consistent all the time. Friendship is something guaranteeing we can still be friends even after we express completely different ideas and argue on them.
Additional, through the process of talking, my friend and I can come up with some new ideas which were not mentioned by the teacher. I still remember when I was in high school, I preferred to turn to the student who is really good at maths every time I had problems. The boy unlike other students who just told you how teacher solved the question, he would like to tell you his own method. This really inspired me a lot because he just directed me to view the problem from another angle. After the discussion, we can tell our new method to the teacher. In this way, all the classmates can learn a new method other than the one teacher told us.
Third, even though I am good at this subject, I cannot be sure I have no miss point on this course. When my friend turns to me to seek help, it is also a good chance for me to examine how I understand the knowledge. As the teacher often said, reviewing is the best way of learning. If I can deal with all the problems my friend has, the possibility of my fault will consequently declines. This can be the best way of self examination and it can save me a lot of time to prepare for the courses that I am not so good at.
In summary, turning to friends to seek for help in homework is not a shame behaviour. Actually it is a good way to strengthen the friendship between friends. During the discussion, new ideas will spark and we can have deeper understanding about the problems. Not only the person who seek help but also the person who offer help can benefit from this process. In this way, I sincerely thank for all the people who help me in my lessons and feel glade to help my friends if I can.
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