Agree. What's of more value may be finding out the way of breaking this wall. If possible, find a good boyfriend, that should be the easiest and quickest way I can think of. Or a close nice native friend may also help a lot.
You really don't need most of those GRE words to express yourself freely in California, based on my experience... I would suggest that Chinese students dig deeper into popular local culture and familiarize themselves with names such and Lindsay Lohan and Michelle Rhee. The nuance of everyday American life, such as raviolis or wasabi, you WILL pick up. BUT the opening up of your mind set, a key to integrate into mainstream America , might not be so easy. For example, I had a hard time with dudes worshiping the Dalai Lama at USF…