自己没有做,就说自己没有做,不需要还在后面多此一举,得意洋洋的加上一句说,“不过,在遥远的CHINA那个地方的人,都做了哦, 我可不像他们,我是ARC哦。。。" 以进一步达到抬高自己的目的。
Think about any mainlander, he/she could say, "gee, i didn't do it, Why raise such an issue to EACH and EVERYONE of us?" or, "why i suffer such DISGRACE that those self-claimed ARCs put on me?"
中国人中间这种大家拼命disgrace对方的行为 (俗称“窝里斗”),非常影响国家/个人发展的efficiency & competitive edge
谚语说得好,把邻居家(local mainlander) 的家具砸个稀巴烂,并不会让自己(ARC)的家具显得更好看。
ABC 是历史遗留问题,但是ARC就好比是什么瓜刷什么漆。i can imagine some (although certainly not all of them) ARC running around, claiming tirelessly that "I am ARC, I am ARC, though I am not ABC, I am DIFFEREIENT from those chinese mainlanders". 有必要这么急赤白脸吗, i just can't see the point. I do not want to be rude or anything, but, such a behavior/mentality, 有点“可笑”。
I myself make a lot of int'l travels and I have been working with lots of foreigners (Americans, Europeans). I don't think they are even aware of what "ARC" means or is. I've also been working with many overseas Chinese who become back to China to work on a project basis, no one ever montioned such a word. ARC 无非是一些没有自信心的人用来安慰自己的罢了,对于其他人来说, who cares?
My foreign colleagues and personal friends often thought I was raised or worked overseas, but I don't see this either as a compliment or an insult. It is just becase I speaks English fluently and I have more int'l exposure than they expected me to have. The point is, such a comment/title (either "westernized" or "ARC" or whatever) is NOT ABOUT quality. You are who you are, no need to let other people define who you are.
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