【Native Speaker每日综合训练—38系列】【38-12】 文史哲 Marriage

crystal9291

Intuitive knowledge is actually a more accurate indicator for marital satisfaction than intellectual knowledge
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JM study:measure conscious attitudes and automatic attitudes
outcome:subconscious response is more
reliable than the conscious response
reason:the newlyweds have bias to judge marital satisfaction because of the motivation to see a relationship in a positive way, which might distort conscious evaluation
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JL study: women with premarital doubts have higher divorce rate and less marital satisfaction
JG study:facial expression of contempt is a predicator of divorce
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we should combine both our intellectual head and outspoken heart to choose a romantic partner.
e. Elisabeth. even though E though with her intellectual reasoning , she still followed her heart
e. Janet, follow her heart
--->intellectual reasoning and intuitive insights should not be separated.

puptna

听力那部分声音很缥缈

wensd1111

1 A 01:10
2 A 01:28
3 A 01:40
4 A 01:44
5 A 01:54
6 A 08:31
how to make your marrige happiness.
intellecull over emontional. two ways given. in the second, romatic partner is discussed. intellectual and emotional effect two couples. the conclusion is that follow our heart looking for romatic partner with your eye open.

huwanyue123

Day71 630
38-12

Speed
Time2
Marriage is coming down. In the mid-1950s people married early, most of them had kids and the divorce was rare. But now the current is slowing down and even reversing.
Time3
In the past woman may marry for several reasons: 1. They had little chance to work 2. They were afraid to have baby after sex
The two problems are solved in recent decades, so the marriage is coming down.
Time4
Though marriage still has some advantages, it is not so important as it was in the past. Marriage is dead.
Time5
People always sorry for the one who doesn’t marry for love. However, the truth is, when you confronted with the problem like warmth and safety, the love is luxury.
Time6
Some reasons why you should put love in the first to marry

Obstacle
Intellectual reasoning   vs   Intuitive insights
2 examples of follow heart, different result

1 停止: 00:01:19.891
2 停止: 00:01:35.081
3 停止: 00:01:27.713
4 停止: 00:02:12.521
5 停止: 00:02:30.439
6 停止: 00:09:05.847

samalagorn

Time2 ：01：23
Time3 ：01：37
Time4 ：01：26
Time5 ：02：20
Time6 ：01：53

Obstacle: 09:05
When choosing a romantic partner, it is always best to go with your heart, but to keep your mind's eyes wide open.

olivia瓜瓜

占个座好久没读了

ffffionabear

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[speaker]
Marriage is good for broken heart(heal heart disease) but not for women's waist.Researchers found that women will gain 2-3 inches on their waist after they married.
[speed]
1'28
Although no one predict those things,the author thinks marriage is going down.
2'00
Women nowadays don't have to get married to live in poverty,to have sex without shame and stigma,or to have children without shame and stigma.As the reproductive science develops,they can even have children without sex.So people that choose to live single increased.
1'17
Marriage used to be the only way for everyone to survival because it's uncontested,no one even try to contest it.But now the phenomenon has changed,marriage wouldn't be the same anymore,and it's dead.
2'43
People got marry more for political or financial reason than for love in the old century.And when love and romance became the reason of marriage,divorce became commonplace---when love wanes,the marriage gets shaky;when romance stop,the nuptials die.
2'01
People whose primary reason to marry is other than love tend to have long-term relationship,love shouldn't be the number one or primary factor in marriage for three reasons:
1.Love is changable,as quickly as you fall in love,you can fall out of love.
2.Love does not make for a strong foundation
3.Love is far to meet all you needs.
[obstacle]妈蛋我怎么找了篇这么长的~~坑自己呢这是~~
8'54
main idea:Intuition indicates reasonable intellectual choice most of time when it comes to marriage and love,you can just follow your heart to find the Mr.Right.However,the heart can be wrong,it couldn't define moral from immoral or some special situation like that.Thus,the integration of intuition and intellectual would be advisable.Follow your heart,and open your mind's eyes.

ffffionabear

醒醒Shine 发表于 2014-6-30 08:57
[speaker]
good  marriage, help, heart surgery survival
[time2]

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ffffionabear

puptna 发表于 2014-6-30 15:13
听力那部分声音很缥缈

大概是后期没处理好的原因？~~我会注意的么么哒~~真是不好意思~

yinghua9122

speaker
Marriage has its cons and pros. The con is that women has more possiblility to get weight than men after marriage one year, while men will in the same case when divorce. The pro is that marriage will make persons to live longer, and women are benefited in the happy marriage.

Time2-4
in the last century, marriage is a way to live, the only one way. But now many things are changed, such as attitude, employment, women's rights and so on. So marriage is not the must thing for one's life. The author thinks that marriage will be down.

TIme5-6
the author thinks that love is not the only thing which should be considered in the marriage. Without love, we have others that are much more stable than love to make the relationship longer, such as compatibility, respect, financial support.

Obstacle
scientists do a suvery which shows that your implict attitude toward your marriage is more reliable to decide your marriage success or not. We'd better choose a lover by emotional intuitive attitude, for a romantic parter is always best to go with your heart.