【Native Speaker每日综合训练—38系列】【38-12】 文史哲 Marriage

land炫

time2:1min03s
作者预测marriage会go down。单身的、离婚的会变多；生孩子的会变少。虽然现在的一些census没有显示出这样的趋势但是作者依旧认为marriage会下降。
time3:1min13s
对于女性来说，以前是为了生存，有了婚姻才能生存生小孩。但现在工作机会增加、报酬比以前多。生小孩也不用have sex。还有的人和朋友住在一起，share life 也不用marriage
time4:58s
结婚是因为结婚是很多人做的事情，不是自己本身想。marriage也不是生存的唯一方式。
time5:1min28s
随着女性权利的上升，离婚率也在上升
我们有时会同情那些不是为爱而结婚的人但是love是奢侈品，一旦是相爱的人结婚那么意味着在财富……方面都是契合的
time6:52s
很多人不是为love结婚，可能是为了金钱……有时只需要对方是男的（或女的）good enough
不是说不用考虑love而是love不应该放在第一个考虑。love不是all you need；爱会消散；（三点）

marinate

T2 1.00 245
Marrige used to be an strong and stable relationship, but the author believe that in the future, marrige will goes down
T3 310 1.24
WHY he made such conclusion?1. marrige is no longer the support to get ride of poverty 2. divorce, marriage and sex are becoming more and more common
T4 290 1.28
THE most important: marriage is not the only way to live morally. There are aother ways to live.
T5 385 1.49
WHY U shouldn't marrage? when you get married for love, means you donnot have anything eles. As an consequence, the relationship is likely to go down after the romantic dead.
T6 338 1.14
DONT put love your primarily thing to get in marrige. you need more things than love to get your relationship a long lasting relationship.

01 1439 9.19
seek for love with your eyes wide open--don't decide it by just a glance. the author provide different reasons: 1. love is changing 2 we need to strike a balance between intruitive enmotions  and intellectual reasoning in when choosing a partner.  

白夜非夜

T2 1'14
Marriage is coming down. In the mid-1950s people married early, most of them had kids and the divorce was rare. But now the current is slowing down and even reversing.
T3 1'33
In the past woman may marry for several reasons: 1. They had little chance to work 2. They were afraid to have baby after sex.
T4 1'27
Though marriage still has some advantages, it is not so important as it was in the past. Marriage is dead.
T5 1'52
People always sorry for the one who doesn’t marry for love. However, the truth is, when you confronted with the problem like warmth and safety, the love is luxury.
T6 1'36
Some reasons why you should put love in the first to marry.

lololou

Time 2 1:27
Time 3 1:57
Time 4 1:52
Time 5 2:27
Time 6 2:12
Obstacle 8:11