[原创]何去何从

似水年华

我今年36岁，9岁女孩的妈妈。

     所以辞职考G，我所付出的代价可想而知。我是一个知足长乐的人，我可以选择留在那里永远做我的一家外企的人事经理，一份让很多人有点羡慕的职业，有点小权力，有着一份安逸。

     可我却觉得一切都停止了，我不想停在那里，人生是这么的短暂，我还想经历更多。所以我辞职了，我从小到大都很听话，是个乖乖女，这一次我要自己做主，做自己想做的事！

     可是我没想到考G这么难，虽然毕业以后一直用英文。转眼10月份了！

     我已经在家3个月了，GWD模考9套错11个，8套15个---，一直提不上去，我有些怀疑，我是不是高估了自己，毕竟36岁了。现在一家不错的公司希望我去，何去何从？

OasisWater

人生总有选择，也许很多人在乎选择之后的失落甚至是后悔，但也许有人在乎选择之后体验的一种激情，说自己不在乎结果的人并不多，因为每个人的内心深处还是有着某种期待，那种期待是和自己的付出成比例的。

也许你的过去的经历给了你一种固定思维的模式，也许你体验那种四处流浪，四处漂泊，天涯为家的日子太少，所以，你的想法可以理解。

很多人都是在一次次的失败和挫折之后选择消沉，选择平庸（而不是平凡），而只有很少一部分人选择了继续，哪怕天涯的尽头仍然是荒漠，也一样存在风景；

你的综合状况可能让很多女人羡慕，但你不能让自己的内心羡慕你目前的状态，面对自己吧，如果你能躲的过内心深处的呼唤，那么你就可以保持现状，如果不能，如果在某个漆黑的夜晚面对自己赤裸裸的心灵的时候仍然存在激情，你有后退的理由嘛？我不知道，只有你自己知道。

一家之言。。。。

[此贴子已经被作者于2004-10-12 19:02:05编辑过]

eSpirit

既然一直在用英文的（工作上），那么英语水平应该不会差的：）可能你只是不熟悉ETS的出题思路而已，别急！慢慢的你适应了就会好的。我也是一直用英文的（是工作语言），我觉得在工作上用英文比不用的好处是，你平时阅读的都是英文材料，你写的材料都是英文，所以你有更多的锻炼机会（至少在阅读和写作上不会吃亏）。我是刚开始不久，我觉得自已的英语水平是不错的，但水平好不一定在考试中能得好成绩，如果你对考试出路不了解的话，特别是像GMAT这样的考试。所以我对自已的按排是先让自已熟悉起来，等时机成熟，就能充分地爆发你的能量！

呵呵呵。别灰心哦！！！

不是NN

别停下，一鼓作气走下去，有一天你会为自己骄傲的。

携隐

JJ，我觉得你要好好考虑一下。

好的工作计划和未知的出国深造机会如何选择，这个建议很难给的。关键看你自己想要的是什么。如果你辞职考G只是为了改变现状，那我觉得其实还有很多其他方式，比如你现在得到的另一份好的工作机会，比如去做你自己喜欢的其他工作，都是改变生活的体现。但如果你辞职考G是目标明确的想念商学院，想往这方面发展，那不必为小小的考试烦恼，总有办法可以考过的，只要肯下功夫！

我觉得你还是好好衡量一下出国的利弊。你的背景能申请什么样的学校？你是否喜欢商学院的生活？你喜欢什么样的工作？念国内的还是国外的？考虑好了，如果还是选择考G，那就勇往直前得考，要相信功夫不负有心人，总能考出来的！

呆板彻底

gwd比较难，不要急。如果背景好，gmat分数不用太高。

valarie

The most important is to think it through, over and over, what do you really want? Everyone has the right to chase dream. If you think you will regret later if you don't chase dream now, then be strong and go on your dreamchasing route. If you think you will regret later if you choose to chase dream but you can't realize the dream, then you may want to be where you are. So the question is "are you willing to take the risk?" I fully understand what you are saying. Sometime if you don't try, you will regret and if you tried but can't make it, you will regret too. However, if you don't try, you'll never know what will happen. So........... this is the life.

OasisWater

以下是引用valarie在2004-10-12 21:51:00的发言：
The most important is to think it through, over and over, what do you really want? Everyone has the right to chase dream. If you think you will regret later if you don't chase dream now, then be strong and go on your dreamchasing route. If you think you will regret later if you choose to chase dream but you can't realize the dream, then you may want to be where you are. So the question is "are you willing to take the risk?" I fully understand what you are saying. Sometime if you don't try, you will regret and if you tried but can't make it, you will regret too. However, if you don't try, you'll never know what will happen. So........... this is the life.

很多dd怎是this is the life说的明白，至少部分赞同你的观点。。。

似水年华

i don't know how to express my gratitude for all of u.

a story that i can't forget. Oneday, i am not happy and sat here quietly, my boss, an American came and took picture of me with a camera. later he showed me the picture and said:" life is too short to be sad, i don't know why your Chinese people always trap yourself, see the time u waste for nothing? don't think too much and just do it, if u are happy, why u have to care too much about what u can get?"

i don't want to stop here, i want to fly again to see how far, how high and how beautifully i can fly, i like the feeling of fly although there is rain, there is thunder and there is cold wind.

rabbit

Splendid!