大龄女为儿“拼妈”想读书留美，跪求指点!!

jjessiewang

"当地找一个工作讨个饭碗，只要能陪着孩子无忧无虑"
I agree with all the comments above about the career life in America and about being a mother. I am also a mother. According to my observation, you got to build your own ambition and mind about a solid career.


When you leave your son "out of your mind", you will find the best way to serve your son's future.

jjessiewang

another point:

You will realize that age is not an issue in America. It's your own attitude and ambition that matter.

Try to be the best around you, wherever you are. If you are excellent in China, you will be reluctant to be "ordinary" in America; if you really want to make a good foundation for your son's success, you will want to strive for excellence.

Once when you put yourself in an environment of your second language, you will have to discover how difficult it will be. But no difficulty may make you to desire "讨个饭碗" (maybe that's your humble wording, but you don't have to be too humble when you actually want to strive.)

Wish you all the best!