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发表于 2014-9-28 22:01:31
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Part II: Speed
Rich kids' arrogant, disastrous driving fans hatred of wealthy
BY James Palmer (Global Times) | August 29, 2012
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If there's one piece of advice rich parents in China should follow, it's this: Don't let your kids anywhere near a car.
The latest case of drunken and deadly idiocy happened in Chengdu, where a 19-year-old, driving a sedan, hit a group of roadside migrant workers, injuring two and killing one.
The culprit, who didn't have a driving license, looked properly distraught in video taken by onlookers, but it was his female companion who really drew ire by yelling "Go on, film me! Yayayaya!" Hardly the best way to behave after vehicular manslaughter.
But such scandals are nothing new. From Yao Jiaxin, a student who stabbed a young mother to death after he hit her with his Chevrolet in October 2010, to Li Tianyi, the 15-year-old son of a famous musician who drunkenly attacked an older couple after bumping his car into theirs and then shouted "Who dares to call the police?"in September 2011, the mixture of entitlement, arrogance, and youth is inevitably disastrous.
Perhaps the most archetypal case is that of Li Qiming, who ploughed his Volkswagon into a crowd of students on campus of the Baoding-based Hebei University in October 2010, killing one and severely injuring another. Detained by campus security, he yelled out "Go ahead, sue me if you dare. My dad is Li Gang!" His father, the deputy director of the local public security bureau, found his family at the center of a media firestorm, while "My dad is Li Gang!" became a popular Internet meme to refer to corrosive family corruption and influence.
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There's nowhere that more neatly encapsulates the gulf between China's fuerdai, or "second generation rich," and the rest of society than on the roads. As ordinary people strap-hang to work on buses or the subway, the spoilt children of the elite zoom past in BMWs or Mercedes, driving with one hand on the wheel and the other on the smartphone. In ordinary contexts, their carelessness and callousness is merely annoying. But put them in charge on a ton of metal at 90 kph, and it turns lethal.
And when the incidents go public, they become an easy focus for public rage at a society where it can seem like who you know is more important than what you did when it comes to justice. When the perpetrator seems smugly confident that they can get away with things, netizens' anger boils over. Meanwhile, the victims, usually pedestrians trudging home along the road, are often on the lowest rungs of Chinese society. The gulf between culprit and innocent, rich and poor, is brought into sharp focus.
Admittedly, nothing in China so far has been as bad as in Nepal, where then Prince Paras was widely believed to have killed the country's most popular singer, Praveen Gurung, in a hit-and-run accident in 2000. For a Western equivalent, imagine Prince Harry running over James Blunt.
Along with his cousin Dipendra's murderous family rampage, Paras' reputation as a drunk driver was one of the factors that led to the eventual abolition of the Nepalese monarchy.
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China isn't quite at that level of anger. But with every month seeming to bring another rich kid running over a poor one, or some similar scandal of the super-wealthy, the smell of class warfare is hanging heavy in the air in China.
But some Western countries have inequality that, on paper, comes close to rivaling China, without even a fraction of the anger against rich kids. The US or UK fuerdai -actually more like 20th-generation-rich, in the case of some families - simply don't draw the same ire. Paris Hilton might irk, but she hasn't killed anyone.
Partially it's because their parents wouldn't dream of letting them on the roads without a proper license, and certainly wouldn't smile upon them driving drunk. The famous Chinese indulgence of only children may play a powerful role here. Many wealthy Western families instead impose tight limits on their kids, and keep them on relatively tight financial limits till they're old enough to handle money responsibly.
Or perhaps it's because there's more of a sense of noblesse oblige, the responsibility of the rich to the poor. It might just be a cover over fundamental inequality, but elite Western private schools encourage their students to volunteer locally, prospective Ivy League students have to make sure they have the right quota of volunteering on their resumes, and those born into wealth are often the patrons of and donators to charity.
Perhaps that's all it'll take to dampen Chinese society's hatred of rich kids; some decent PR, and learning to drive properly.
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Source: People's Daily
http://english.peopledaily.com.cn/90882/7927813.html
The Wealthy Are Not Narcissists Despite New Report
BY Steve Siebold | October 27, 2013
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A new study from University of California at Berkeley psychology professor Paul Piff, published in the Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, says that being wealthy increases narcissism.
After interviewing more than 1,200 of the wealthiest individuals over the past 30 years, I can tell you it's not narcissism. The difference: Middle class believes rich people are arrogant, but the truth is the wealthy are confident.
The negative projections and derogatory labels placed on the rich are endless. One of the most common is that the rich are cocky, arrogant people who think they're better than everyone else. The truth is, successful people are confident because they repeatedly bet on themselves and are rarely disappointed. Even when they fail, they're confident in their ability to learn from the loss and come back stronger and richer than ever.
During the recession of 2008-2010, the rich took massive financial losses around the globe, but when interviewed many said they were confident in their ability to earn all the money back even faster than they initially acquired it. This is not arrogance, but self-assuredness in its finest form. The great ones develop their confidence over a period of years, but really catapult to new levels when they suffer a catastrophic loss and make what appears to be an impossible comeback. Once this happens, they no longer fear losing, knowing they can always make the money back.
As any fear-based thoughts diminish with each experience, they direct more of their mental energy towards thoughts of love, abundance and gratitude. This elevated, fearless consciousness keeps them moving towards what they want, as opposed to moving away from what they don't want. This often doubles or triples their net worth quickly due to the new efficiency in their thinking. Eventually they begin to believe they can accomplish anything, and this becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
As they move from success to success, they create a psychological tidal wave of momentum that gets stronger every day, bringing their confidence so high it is often interpreted as arrogance.
Don Shula said, "If you're going to take gambles, you must have one thing: self-confidence."
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Selfish and self-absorbed?
The middle class believes the wealthy are selfish and self-absorbed. Guess what? It's true. The difference is the middle class thinks it's wrong while the wealthy thinks it's right. The masses are programmed to believe at an early age they should put the needs of others in front of their own. While this sounds like a spirit driven, high-level philosophy, it's the worst advice you can get.
When you fly on a commercial airliner, the first thing the flight attendant tells the passengers is, "in case of an emergency, please secure your oxygen mask first before you help anyone else - even children." This selfish strategy has saved many lives, and the premise is simple: If you're not taking care of you, you're not in a position to help anyone else. You can't give what you don't have, and if you're struggling to pay your bills while volunteering four nights a week, you're probably hurting more people than you're helping.
The philosophy of the wealthy is to get rich, get what you want, and help others in any way you wish. Your volunteer work, while noble, won't touch anywhere near the number of people you could be helping by creating a new product or service that makes life easier for or better for other people.
Any self-made millionaire will tell you there is a period of time in the beginning of the wealth building process where you must focus on yourself and your business in order to succeed at an uncommon level. They know it's not the highest level of thought, but it's necessary to create massive success. Once their fortune is secure, they are able to elevate their thinking if they wish, to the plight and suffering of others. They don't believe they are obligated to give back, but many choose to.
Meanwhile, the masses are toiling away with the best intentions while not being able to give much to themselves or others. They are capable of everything the rich are capable of, but few ever break out because their beliefs are so heavily ingrained in their consciousness that it keeps them blind to higher levels of thought.
Duke Ellington said, "Selfishness can be a virtue. Selfishness is essential to survival, and without survival we cannot protect those whom we love more than ourselves."
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Source: The Huffington Post
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/steve-siebold/the-wealthy-are-not-narci_b_3823635.html
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