Should I get a personal friend as a recommender? --------------------------------------------------------------- Hi Jon, HBS seems to change the requirement for recommendation this year. Below's quoted from their application webpage: "Our general advice is that two out of three recommendations should be from your professional life - ideally one of those should come from a current or recent supervisor. We completely understand that this is not always possible. Use your best judgment. Look at the questions we are asking recommenders to complete. Find people who know you well enough to answer them! This should take priority over level of seniority or HBS alumni status." So they're suggesting two out of three recommendations should be from the professional life. Does it mean that we need to approach someone from 'non-professional' life, I.E. a family or personal friend etc, for the 3rd recommendation? Definitely a personal or family friend will drop a good line for us, but is that what HBS's looking for, and are their words convincing for HBS? Last but the least, what's the reason for HBS to require 2 out of the 3 recommendatons come from professional life - are they intending to use the 3rd one to get a different perspective for the applicants outside the professional world? Hope you can help me with this question. Thanks! -- by 会员 haiwen (2012/9/4 11:08:11)
Hey there, and great question!
Well, first of all, keep in mind that this is only a “Recommendation” and not a hard-fast rule. So I would say first of all it depends on the potential strength of your recommenders, and where they are coming from. So if you have three super strong recommenders from three different professional areas, that would still be a great option.
When you do consider who to use for a more “personal” recommendation, I’m not sure that what they mean is “friend” or “Family member”. Instead think of colleagues, religious leaders, professor, community service leaders you have worked with, etc…. I mean what can a friend write? “He’s a great guy. He’s my best friend” J So, you would probably get more out of one of the other options above.
Hope this answers your questions!
Jon Frank
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