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是不是700+对 托福75 只是个遥远的梦。。。

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发表于 2010-9-17 16:35:03 | 只看该作者
LZJJ加油!!!
这里都是战友,没有人是直接就能考到700+的,再牛的也是努力过的,牛人也都是从不牛进化而成的~~
抱抱~~
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发表于 2010-9-17 16:53:48 | 只看该作者
楼主加油,支持你~!:)
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发表于 2010-9-17 21:15:28 | 只看该作者
理解发帖回的人少的郁闷。纯粹帮顶顶
75实际上说明你的英语水平还行。很多人没怎么复习的时候都是七十几的,加油一个月就上一百了,然后考G也好考。还有G和T不是一类的吧,关系不是那么大
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发表于 2010-9-17 22:34:57 | 只看该作者
这T和G的目标差距挺大的噢
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发表于 2010-9-17 22:48:07 | 只看该作者
我T也只考了77, 觉得复习的过程中付出了很多, 看到分数时真的很受打击...不过人永远不能放弃追逐的梦想...你想得到的东西永远不会失去...我相信..所以现在我在为了G而努力...我相信天道酬勤..
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 楼主| 发表于 2010-10-16 00:14:00 | 只看该作者
好感动。。每条留言都好感动。。。。。开心的加油去了!
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发表于 2010-10-16 01:10:15 | 只看该作者
我这潜水王来给楼主打气
我和楼主背景很相似,也是随老公来了美国。背景差,英文烂,但是又不甘心一辈子做个家庭主妇。我前几天很灰心的和老公聊天,抱怨自己完全是选了一条不擅长的路,沮丧自己可能真的不是读书那块料。
我猜我们可能是一类人,读书时没有全力拚过,但凭着点小聪明和运气也算顺利毕业工作,之前的路都挺顺的没遇过什么挫折。可是这两年的徘徊,连个考试都不能通过,逐渐开始否定自己。美国的没有年龄歧视,三四十岁上学的也不少,我老公对我说,如果自己想努力了,什么时候开始都不算晚,况且我们才三十不到。现在有机会让我们再拼一次,我们不能放弃。我GMAT陆续复习了一年多,会报名参加十一月底的考试,不过我来美国快三年了,之前都是逛街上网荒废掉了。
你不是一个人在战斗,共勉!
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 楼主| 发表于 2010-10-16 03:22:21 | 只看该作者
小草角mm  hughug。。。。怎么你跟我那么像呢。。。。连你LG说的话跟我LG讲的都一样一样的。。。

我也来了两年了,现在是第三年的开始,时间过得好快。。。我们一起加油,加油!为了不让以后更老的时候后悔!就不信了一个Gmat就真能把人难倒了。。。加油!
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发表于 2010-10-16 03:37:08 | 只看该作者
Hi, LZ & LS, my experience is just the same as yours. I've been staying in the States for more than 3 years and my visa status turned from F2 to H4 last year. What I wanna say is you are not alone, and you are still young.
To be frank, I think my pressure is far beyond what you guys could feel. I was born before 1980 which you can guess how old I am. I gave birth the year after I came to the US, but I decided to bring my son back to China for some time because I couldn't handle him by myself while studying for the tests. He'll be turning to two very soon, but I'm still cracking the TOEFL&GMAT alone here in the States, I'm missing him while suffering the tests' torture everyday. Like you, I cried from the bottom of my heart every time when I saw the tests' results on the screen, I thought why I couldn't climb this barrier mountain in my life, I'm wondering when I can finish it and bring my son back to my life. I feel sometimes I'm lost in my mind, I always think of the opportunity cost-what if I didn't come to the US, maybe I would have been promoted to a management position already; what if I didn't come to the US, maybe I am now enjoying the wonderful life in Shanghai.But now, I'm living kind of an isolated life, no social connections here, no relatives here, what I'm doing is just going to library everyday... Why I should be facing such pressure and burden like this? Was I wrong with my choice? Was I too immature when I made all decisions? You know what, when people start doubting him/her-self, the symptoms like mine. I think people always have the paradoxical personalities,  the most important thing is always don't lose the compass in your life which means you should always make things clear in your mind-what's your initiatives and aspirations for your life. For me, the true love from my husband and my families is always the strongest backbone (of course, this is also the way why I feel so much pressure, but just think of things positively and simply-because they all wish you well.) So, I believe one day I would be bringing my son back with "glory", for this, I won't regret what I have decided and what I am doing though I sometimes hate myself and feel like I'm the most brutal mother ever in this world especially when I was weak.
Okay, I wish you best,find and keep your aspirations for better life, and do remember: success is going from failure to failure without a loss of enthusiasm. Good luck for all of us!
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 楼主| 发表于 2010-10-16 05:12:49 | 只看该作者
tears drop.........you will finally get your son back, get everything back...... come on! we are not alone!!!!!!!!!!!!
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