Why not first settle the problem of money and car? then the girls will wave their hands to you.....
if your rp is high enough, don't worry, just making money first!!!!
the phrase no.2 is amazingly nb statement. it reads to me as if having a high rp put this guy in a hugely disadvantageous position in getting the girls. but dont worry - go make a lot of money and this cures your high rp problem....