以下是引用kallyli在2008-8-5 23:29:00的发言：因为用公司的电脑， 打中文很不方便，我还是写英文好了，昨天，看了一天书，用脑过度，大脑兴奋，一夜未眠，早上起来，突然想，我到底在做什么？我图了个什么？ 考完gmat， 进入business school, 无休止的考试，一门接一门，累得人半死，好容易考完所有考试，又要找实习，投简历， 面试，好不容易找到实习，又要拼命干，想留下来，好不容易给老板留了点好印象，又赶上金融低谷，各个投行都在裁员，我们公司没有裁员，但不能招聘新员工。于是，现在，又要开始找工作了。每天的生活，学语言，日语，德语，法语， 学计算机，学编程，读公司的产品，上公司的培训课，做论文，做报告， 查招聘信息，做SHL,但仔细想想, 就算最后找到顶尖投行, 又能如何? 工作要面对多少压力, 要看多少人在和自己较劲, 有是新一轮的制定目标, 努力, 真是永无休止...I am wondering what I am doing? Is this the life I wanna lead? What is the true meaning of life? Isn't it something that makes me feel excited and happy? Maybe I am only a creature who never understands how to live in the world. How ridiculous! I talked to my friend a few days ago. She failed in her college entrance exam and went to a second class university in China. She cannot go to top banks, 500 companies, top business schools, but she has something that I do not have, and something I am working hard to gain, that is happiness. She is excellent I should admit, and beautiful. She never has to think about surpassing someone, since she is already the first, she never has to be afraid of losing, since she is gaining more than anyone else around her. She never knows how big and competitive the outside world is, but she does not bother to know it, since she is already satisfied. She is happy, I envy her. I am scared, that I am running on a wheel, busy all day long, feeling I am gaining, achieving, conquering, and one day, when I look up, I suddenly realize that I have gained nothing except exhaustion. 类似的问题我经常想，几句个人感想： 1>不和别人比。 2>不做无止尽的期望，对自己合理定位。 3>追求自己想要的，但是现实中限制很多一般的确做不到。就从现实出发，尽量一点点的多做一点自己想要的，少作一点不得不做的。 4>Focus on "What to do", rather than "Whom to be"
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