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tristesser

以下是引用dhdlorent在2008-5-21 18:02:00的发言：

 

well, let's talk about HATE. in fact, there are two kinds of hatred. one is the pure hate to which you mean it when you say "i hate ***". BUT, another one is rather contraversail in that the more violently you yell "i hate ***", the more profoundly you love ***......

It's the "I'd beat them with a stick" hate

dhdlorent

以下是引用tristesser在2008-5-21 19:07:00的发言：

It's the "I'd beat them with a stick" hate

what is that???  frankly, my voilence to a female will stop at verbal attack at most... cannot imagine how to beat a lady wiith whatever stuff....

tristesser

yeah but a lady can beat you with a stick if you are too aggressive. That's what I mean.

dhdlorent

以下是引用tristesser在2008-5-22 3:19:00的发言：
yeah but a lady can beat you with a stick if you are too aggressive. That's what I mean.

family volience is only allowed in family...so, i will only accept volience of my gf/wife....no others.....hehe........

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GSBDream2006

以下是引用dhdlorent在2008-5-21 5:59:00的发言：

funny aggressive? please let me know how to do so.... i can be either, but never both....

it feels very technically demanding. sometimes, when i try to be aggressive, the other one feel funny about it....and then i try to be more aggressive, the other one feel more funny.... then i finally climb the wall....

i guess it could be very powerful if we can combine funny and aggressive in one expression, as long as not scare people by a twisted face....

 

You almost hit the point, man, I mean "TO BE FUNNY & TO BE AGRESSIVE"  to YOUR GF;)

I used to have a shy gf and when I tried to kiss her right at the back seat of TAXI, she was so shocked and bursted into pink face. I just heartly explained I can not resist her beauty, ohhoo, come on. And she loved it, wow.

It is not very techincally demanding but it do require some kinds of sense. Remember, do not stop at funny, you have to be aggressive to win a girl quickly.

 

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tristesser

以下是引用GSBDream2006在2008-5-24 5:14:00的发言：

You almost hit the point, man, I mean "TO BE FUNNY & TO BE AGRESSIVE"  to YOUR GF;)

I used to have a shy gf and when I tried to kiss her right at the back seat of TAXI, she was so shocked and bursted into pink face. I just heartly explained I can not resist her beauty, ohhoo, come on. And she loved it, wow.

It is not very techincally demanding but it do require some kinds of sense. Remember, do not stop at funny, you have to be aggressive to win a girl quickly.

 

Well... that doesn't work on all girls. I say do your research before make a move.  Sometime being aggressive can set you back. ' I can't resist your beauty ' 哇 哈哈 这种话骗骗小女生还好。

dhdlorent

以下是引用GSBDream2006在2008-5-24 5:14:00的发言：

You almost hit the point, man, I mean "TO BE FUNNY & TO BE AGRESSIVE"  to YOUR GF;)

I used to have a shy gf and when I tried to kiss her right at the back seat of TAXI, she was so shocked and bursted into pink face. I just heartly explained I can not resist her beauty, ohhoo, come on. And she loved it, wow.

It is not very techincally demanding but it do require some kinds of sense. Remember, do not stop at funny, you have to be aggressive to win a girl quickly.

 

well, i agree that you are indeed aggressive...in such impulsive "attack" on an unprepared shy gal.... to be that way, you acturally dont need any technique. instead, some boosting adrenal gland will work well enough to let out your animal instinct....

but, what is the funny part??? the kiss??? yes, it can be funny for a couple in relationship. but it would bring about disastous result for a couple whose relationship still hang in the air....

 

dhdlorent

以下是引用tristesser在2008-5-24 6:19:00的发言：

Well... that doesn't work on all girls. I say do your research before make a move.  Sometime being aggressive can set you back. ' I can't resist your beauty ' 哇 哈哈 这种话骗骗小女生还好。

hehe, i remember i used these words almost 20 years ago....

GSBDream2006

以下是引用tristesser在2008-5-24 6:19:00的发言：

Well... that doesn't work on all girls. I say do your research before make a move.  Sometime being aggressive can set you back. ' I can't resist your beauty ' 哇 哈哈 这种话骗骗小女生还好。

That is true, she was a 小女生 at that time. haha... My experience, it is hard to 骗 girl over 26 years old. As I said, I love smart girls, they know everything but they still enjoy it. To me, entertaining the girl is kind of keypoint in girl hunting, oh, lol.... I will always try to lead them to do something that looks wild to them and the humble trick always works. Simple is the best for 小女生!!

tristesser, I feel you maybe the kind of girl I appreciate most (I like girl of strong mind), I would like to share a story, hopefully that will entertain you. hehe..
 

I used to date a very beautiful white girl (over 26) and the first time we went out for lunch and wandered along the street, a car rushed from backward, I saw that, she did not notice, and I Holded her in arm right before she could ran into the car. She was so shocked and I had to embrace her for a while and that is what she said "omg, GSB, you saved my life, you are my hero....." hehe... And she was really wild..

 

That is fun, Right?

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GSBDream2006

以下是引用dhdlorent在2008-5-24 6:47:00的发言：

well, i agree that you are indeed aggressive...in such impulsive "attack" on an unprepared shy gal.... to be that way, you acturally dont need any technique. instead, some boosting adrenal gland will work well enough to let out your animal instinct....

but, what is the funny part??? the kiss??? yes, it can be funny for a couple in relationship. but it would bring about disastous result for a couple whose relationship still hang in the air....

 

You did not get it this time. hehe... The key point is not the kiss, it is "At the back seat of TAXI". She was shy, I know, But I have the felling that if I took the initative and made such a "Brave" move that will be laughed by the TAXI driver and put us into kinds of embarassing situation, She will be out of her mind and just enjoy the process.  The result proved I was right. Of course, if you are dating a conservative Girl, you get to be more careful, every one is unique...