well, my view is different. For women, the most important is family, at least it works for me. So I had my kids early on, while working, making money. Now I have financial support, meaning have the money, now I want to go back to school, and I have choices now. Even not go back to school, I still have a good family and financial independence. For school age is a factor. Well, that is for school, not me, I just want to do whatever I want to do.
But having a kid is most important thing. Everything can wait, only giving birth can not. IF you lose your timing. lose all.
Sometime you can not control it, everything else, such work, school, at least you have a control.