翻年就步入29高龄了.已婚,在生小孩和追梦之间徘徊不定.有没有和我同样困扰的女孩子呀?

ludongbin

以下是引用nickynicky在2007-10-11 21:33:00的发言：

really???

I'm wondering whether I could do the same thing...hoho...

This will not impact my MBA degree? I'm afraid others will feel that I'm so strange to do such things in school...and this may do harm to my networking...

[it does the opposite]

ctian

well, probably I am the oldest lady here (aunt, haha). 40. 2 kids, just took GMAT 700  (600 last month).  Not sure what to do next full-time or part-time.

But I look very young, my colleagues told me I look like 30 (" were you married at 18", since my son is 11 now) , so I just take it I am 30.  What does age make difference here? As long as you have a dream, chase. Never late.

MBAWinnaMBA

以下是引用ctian在2007-10-12 3:07:00的发言：

well, probably I am the oldest lady here (aunt, haha). 40. 2 kids, just took GMAT 700  (600 last month).  Not sure what to do next full-time or part-time.

But I look very young, my colleagues told me I look like 30 (" were you married at 18", since my son is 11 now) , so I just take it I am 30.  What does age make difference here? As long as you have a dream, chase. Never late.

totally agree with u:-) not only for MBA, for anything in ur life, anything u r dreaming of, chase it! no matter finally u get it or not, at most, at the very last moment, u can sit back, relaxed and say to urself, i tried for what i really want,  the process values most, not the result... and most importantly, u really enjoyed the bite, bitter or sweet... treasure of ur life...

HULI1979

刚刚准备申请，却得知自己怀孕了，这个小家伙来得真是时候！管不了那么多了，再多困难也要上！

maggie778899

看到了很多同行的人，太好了，我也想明年怀孕然后申请学校，估计要到31才能去上学了，我们共勉吧！

ztztzt8888

以下是引用ll_422在2007-10-11 12:00:00的发言：
LS, 女孩去国外就成了香勃勃了. 不用苦恼郁闷哈

是听新东方说的呢，还是真的亲眼见识过？

我也没还没出去过，不过email里出去同学的反馈是，男人女人都很难找对象——男人是选择面小，女人是选择面一样小而且时间紧。

如果是美女就不怕，美国的情况是这样，大家比较大胆，美女有一车人在追，但普通女生的话~~~~~~~~~总之苦乐不均啊

另外，前面有女同学说“结果不重要，过程才重要”，希望你在多年之后依然这么想，可能男人跟女人真是不一样，MBA怎么能算梦呢，充其量只是为了最终理想的一个跳板，梦应该娶个美女、开个公司之类的实际的东西，总之，我是完全“结果最重要那种人”

真是奇怪的代沟，各位比我大不少，心态可真是年轻啊~~~~~~~~~~~不论怎样，有梦总是好的

[此贴子已经被作者于2007-10-12 19:30:27编辑过]

MBAWinnaMBA

以下是引用ztztzt8888在2007-10-12 19:07:00的发言：

是听新东方说的呢，还是真的亲眼见识过？

我也没还没出去过，不过email里出去同学的反馈是，男人女人都很难找对象——男人是选择面小，女人是选择面一样小而且时间紧。

如果是美女就不怕，美国的情况是这样，大家比较大胆，美女有一车人在追，但普通女生的话~~~~~~~~~总之苦乐不均啊

哈哈,到时候一车的人追偶可如何招架的住哈:-) CLEAR: 是火车还是自行车哈:-)
            

无论男人女人,关键是建立在一定自我认识基础上的自信...对自我,对感情,对未来...年龄是一个因素,但不是起决定作用的因素..取决于每个人的心态和个人综合魅力...

另外，前面有女同学说“结果不重要，过程才重要”，希望你在多年之后依然这么想，可能男人跟女人真是不一样，MBA怎么能算梦呢，充其量只是为了最终理想的一个跳板，梦应该娶个美女、开个公司之类的实际的东西，总之，我是完全“结果最重要那种人”

幼稚园小朋友也知道自己得了小红花的这个结果最开心:-) 但是,人生中,不是你想要的你就能得到,尽管你已为它望眼欲穿,肝肠寸断,竭尽全力...这时如何去保持调整到一种平和的心态,以便自己即使在人生濒临绝境死后余生那一刻,仍然热爱生活,勇敢去爱,继续前行...不同的角度,不同的景况下侧重点有别而已...无所谓对错:-)

真是奇怪的代沟，各位比我大不少，心态可真是年轻啊~~~~~~~~~~~不论怎样，有梦总是好的

如果说有代沟,那是人在一定的经历和阅历后,看问题的心态会更趋平和,也知道如何更好地去把握--强烈企图心和无法控制的最终结果--这一跷跷板的平衡...

想说俺们幼稚是吗? 小弟弟再修炼几年能变的如此幼稚也许对你是好事...BTW, 心态年轻不好吗:-)泰戈尔说,上帝等待着人在智慧中重新获得童年哈:-)好好体会吧~

 

Whitney

Of course Baby first.  Try get pregnant as quick as possible.  The worst thing is to apply one or two year later.  For ladies,  it just too difficult for them to have a baby after passing certain age.  I saw a lot of couples, who are nearly 40 years old, try almost everything medical science can offer.  Of course magic can happen.  They make a lot money and have a lot of spare time to enjoy, but money and time cannot exchange for kids.  Their dillema is if they really don't want kids so that they can have a good time in their life, why they work so hard in first place and why they make so much money that they cannot even spend.  You not only chase your dream, but also need someone with whom you can share  it.  In return, they will bring your happiness and support you to achieve your dream.

xuapplelin

30， 未婚，刚结束一段要走入婚姻的感情。发现还是自己错了，a man is a world.我原这样以为。认识他后，放弃了为职业转换读MBA的想法（已经陆续地做过一些准备）。

现在准备重新考GMAT，确定学校，这个方向，我得走到头，撞到南墙才回来。

MBAWinnaMBA

以下是引用xuapplelin在2007-10-13 7:47:00的发言：

30， 未婚，刚结束一段要走入婚姻的感情。发现还是自己错了，a man is a world.我原这样以为。认识他后，放弃了为职业转换读MBA的想法（已经陆续地做过一些准备）。

现在准备重新考GMAT，确定学校，这个方向，我得走到头，撞到南墙才回来。

people in love is like people walking in night dream with eyes closed.... yeah, do whatever u want, not to give up too much in the relationship, no matter how much u love him... u v to be urself, love urself,  he will treasure u more... only then u can keep him aside, really enjoy life together...