求助：拿到admission后发现怀孕了，怎么办？

bettywushh

以下是引用Huangzizeng在2007-4-10 0:45:00的发言：

姐姐我也这么认为阿

金城武弟弟你又来跟姐姐的帖，好好准备你的GMAT去吧。

bettywushh

感觉LZ两方面都不愿意放弃，但是有的时候是必须牺牲其中一个的，LZ好好考虑，免得两头同时进行，到时候都做不好。

小小豆子

我不太懂美国学校关于怀孕学生的政策以及规定，但我觉得既然有了孩子，那是多末好的一件事，应该留下他/她，这是一个母亲应该做的选择。

蓝莲花

以下是引用angelene2000在2007-4-13 0:49:00的发言：

I have the similar situation with you, admitted by Yale, found the due day is 11/19. I contacted school and many alumni and current students, I decided to defer one year. Yale said for health issue, they 100% approve my request. so your school should approve your defer. I still suggest you defer one year. You can take care of baby and also take the maximum benefit out of your MBA program. you also can do it if you come with baby, but you will be very stressfull. Why should you push yourself so hard. Life is important. for your age, one more year is nothing. I am 34 already. i will defer and will be the oldest student in the class next year. but after serious consideration, I still decide to defer. If you do not have your family with you and you cannot afford to hire a full nanny (> $1200/month), you better defer.

good luck and will like share your experience.

总算有个人跟我同病相怜了。jj好像已经在美国了？给了你短消息，希望能多沟通！

yaoyao99

Are you willing to leave the baby behind to pursue your MBA degree in a year?  What would you do if you have to take care of the baby while you're in school if no one else from the family will be going with you?

suqier

我一个上海同学是defer一年的,另一个西安同学是生了孩子后一周正好是orientation就跑来上课了.

蓝莲花

以下是引用yaoyao99在2007-4-13 10:49:00的发言：
Are you willing to leave the baby behind to pursue your MBA degree in a year?  What would you do if you have to take care of the baby while you're in school if no one else from the family will be going with you?

我的想法是孩子出生后再让我老公或者我妈妈过去帮我。让他们整年都在那边不太现实。yaoyao你觉得这样可行吗？

yaoyao99

So they'll be there for a couple months and you'll be alone with the baby for 1.5+ years?  Unless you have a lot of money to pay for help (babysitter/nanny), I'm not sure how you'll get through school and raise the kid by yourself.

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lucyzl517

以下是引用蓝莲花在2007-4-13 12:21:00的发言：

我的想法是孩子出生后再让我老公或者我妈妈过去帮我。让他们整年都在那边不太现实。yaoyao你觉得这样可行吗？

晕...那先在国内学会开车...练习的时候装个假肚子....别指望中国WSN会载你去产检,他们忙着泡未婚mm