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Letting a friend make a mistake is better than saying or doing
something which will destroy the friendship.
Admittedly, under the circumstance that
your friends can easily accept your idea or your friend can realize they
mistakes positively, telling the truth to your friends when they make mistakes.
However, not the same as that outlook, do I link my notion that not telling the
truth to the friends when they make mistakes, with the nature of human’s
personality, destruction of friendship and some serious problems and my
judgment is similar to what my grandfather said “sometimes telling truth to
others is reasonable but sometimes telling truth to others will cause
misunderstanding. Emphasis certainly, to rationalize my judgment, I will handle
several reasons and examples to validate my notion as addressed blow.
Demonstrating my brother’s example and
statics may validate that most of people like to accept eulogy rather than
critics. My brother is a lazy boy. But recently he worked very hard and even
some times stays up until midnight. Although his arduous working, he always get
low score as before. To discover the uncanny phenomena, I observe him studying
in a hidden place. To my surprise he is not studying at all for while he is doing
the homework he is staring out side for a long time or he close his eyes and
sitting straight at the desk facing a open text book. I told this to my mother
and then she blamed for his pretention. But he acknowledged that it was me who
told the truth to mother and he has been angry with me for weeks. On that
night, if I had told his hard working to mother, he would have been very happy.
Since then, he never pretends but he express his lazy more obviously. The
number of this kind of people occupies more than 64.5% in a statics made be a
research group in a noted university in China. Most of common people prefer the
eulogy than critics, is not it?
Furthermore, giving the critics to your
friends may shrink the friendship or even may destroy the friendship that can
be seen in my personal experience. My friend once cheated in the final exam and
he was caught by the superior, so got zero in his final exam. As soon as I met
him, I told him that” cheating is not unfairly to others but also make others
not believe you”. Because of I was the first person who told the truth and
blamed for his cheating, he argued with me loudly and he said “it is you who
told that to the teacher and you just want me get zero in my final exam.” I was
mistaken by him and I lost his trust and friendship. Therefore, one may have
not the convincing exhortation to persuade your friend not to make mistakes, furthermore,
one may lost the friendship.
Finally, persuading your friends not to
make mistakes or pointing out what your friends have done is incorrect may
cause some serious problems. It is a common sense that the young always do
whatever they want to do even the things are obviously wrong. My mother’s
friend’s son’s real experience is a typical example to explain the point. One day, after school, he come across a pupil
who brought some money to buy some things for her mother and then he robbed the
pupil and beat the poor child violently however his friend witnessed that and
managed to stopped him Two day ago, my mother told me that the boy used the knife
to kill his friend who witness his robbery, in a warehouse and through his
friend into the river, for the boy thought his friend would told that to the
police or his mother. Because his has not been an adult, he was just be caught.
But the more he was persuaded the more he wants to do what other prevents him
doing. Several years ago, he hurt another one. As the commonsense and the terrible
examples illuminate that telling the truth to you friend or persuading your
friend may cause some serious problems.
As an ancient saying goes “every coin has
two sides”, we cannot polarize the issue; whereas, the disadvantage of my view
is that some people who are extreme moral and modest can receive friends’ advices
and have progress or correct his mistakes.
All in all, considering all the reasons and
examples shown above, I substantiate indicating what your friends have done is
wrong may result in losing friends even cause some serious problems, because of
the nature of human’s personality, a characteristic of accepting eulogy hating
critics.
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