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题目主题:一直说真话在任何关系中都是最重要的
拙作如下,求拍砖
When it is asked what is of significance in a relationship, the answers may be changed in a wide range, such as loyalty, humor, etc.. The list can go on and on. Among the list, honesty will never be ignored.
To begin with, a friend or other fellows can be trusted is indeed one. Admittedly, trust is created with handicaps. What is helpful to building up trusts is honesty. A honest person is always easily trusted by others. Additionally, he/she is highly admired in almost each situation. In other word, a person labeled as dishonesty will barely be trusted and feel it difficult to make a close relationship with some other.
Furthermore, telling the truth is the vital factor to evaluate whether a person is of honesty. Definitely, telling a lie is always defined as dishonesty. Consequently, telling the truth promotes an image as honest. Therefore, it is valued a lot in any relationship to speak according to the fact. It is common seen that when a person is estimated, the first trait is likely whether he/she can be trusted, or, specifically, what he/she says can be considered as facts.
However, it does not make sense when it comes to telling the truth always. In many soap opera, It can be observed that a character tells to another, maybe call the person B accurately, that a person crucial to B will be in recovery soon rather than the truth that it is a death note indeed before B is taking part in a final or other vital issues soon. In fact, children are usually taught to say something unfaithful when necessary. It is named a lie with merits as well.
What is more, it is put into punishment when telling the truth sometimes. In China, it has become a tradition that when a student meet the tests applying to the colleges, the death of his/her family members should be avoided. If someone tells the truth to the students, he/she will be criticized by the parents along with teachers.
In conclusion, honesty is a trait admired and takes the first place in any relationship undoubtedly. But the time when to tell the truth should be selected. In other word, always telling the truth may not be the most critical factors, as it depends on circumstances. |
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