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老年人写累了……
It is more important to choose friends more that have fun with than to choose friend that will help you when you need them. Everyone has some close friends of quite different features such as humor, optimism, helpfulness, intelligence, trustiness. We would like to spend time with interesting friends for fun, share ideas with like-minded ones and help each other when in trouble as family. When it comes to the question of which kind of the friends, funny ones or helpful ones, is more important, people have personal choice based on one’s own situation and respective experience. As for me, helpful friends are of more importance in my life.
Admittedly, a joyous relationship is the basic of every friendship. When we chat with friends of same ideas or common hobby, the fun from the friendship can release (the) pressure we got from work and life and make us happy and enjoyable. It is natural that no one likes to stay with a guy who always feels boring. In the situation that you just need some fun or kill time, a friend you can have fun with is a pretty good choice. However, such kind of friendship only based on simple fun is not genuine.
As our life will not always be smooth, when we are in trouble, a helpful friend can give us a hand. A friend just for fun will disappear from your world immediately. The relationship merely bases on fun is feeble. I have heard of a joke that borrowing money from friends is the moment one gets to know how few his real friends are. Therefore, one who would try his best to help when I am in trouble is my real friend. Only this kind
Additionally, even though we are not in trouble, we are facing many choices in our life. A considerate and experienced friend could be quite helpful to give us some advices. For example, when I was seeking a job after graduation, a friend of mine gave me a lot of precious advices on the preparation of the interviews and decision making between two offers. Besides, he encouraged me often when I was not self-confident and worrying about not getting a good job. Without his help, I could not even find a job! Therefore, friends’ help is of significant importance in our life.
In the end, we share opinions and learn from each other because of the human natures: people need company; people have a strong will to feel supported. A friend with just fun can meet the first demand but fail to meet the later one while a helpful friend is a perfect choice for the both.
To sum up, as have been discussed above, though funny friend is necessary in our life, the friends who can help you when you need is more important. Therefore, I disagree with the topic statement. |
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