迷惑：下一步该怎么办，如何与国外学生交往？（4.11稍作更新）

susanaedet

所谓networking，很重要的一点还是看你和什么人networking。一大堆学生在一起，大部分也就是娱乐活动，打算真正networking的话，努力参加professional的活动，认真做research研究公司，聊天的时候做到言之有物问题有水平，这个比语言重要很多。大部分人语言都够基本交流，内容不行才是真的。

-- by 会员 ziye210 (2011/4/10 10:59:30)

ziye姐来啦!其实发这个贴时就在想你会不会来留言,果然来啦!
ziye姐说得真好! 我现在对这个感触很深,大部分时间你觉得词穷是因为肚子里没货,实在没什么可以讨论的.从现在开始要多关注自己以后想从事的领域的信息,有意地记下来多思考 谢谢ziye姐!

susanaedet

亚女比亚男有优势多了。女孩子的话多参加商学院的活动。各种volunteering,community service, student clubs能参加就参加。不要就除了上课就其它活动都不参加。慢慢地step out of your comfort zone.一开始很难，但多试几次后面就会慢慢变好了。而且认识人的话要主动。不要被动地等别人过来搭讪。看见很帅的很想认识的男生就直接去讲么。机会要靠自己抓住的。这种也是networking的一部分啊。

我感觉很多时候不要太刻意。越放松越自然不要太在意效果最好。不管什么人，性格相投的话自然会觉得气场一致，多聊一下.有时候实在觉得别人不是很友好或者别人懒得搭理你的话那就算了。朋友什么的有时和情人一样也要靠缘分的。

楼主别太担心了，多尝试下会慢慢好起来的。

-- by 会员 davidleizhen (2011/4/10 9:45:37)

这个同学说得真好! 我现在就在试着慢慢走出自己的comfort zone,的确不容易,尤其是碰钉子的时候,但是一定会坚持下去的~相信不久也会变得自如很多,谢谢你的建议!

梦飘洋

中国人还是中国人，很难融入老美的圈子，刚开始时语言问题，到后来就是兴趣，爱好，文化的关系，所以就像上面几位说的那样，做好自己，没必要强求

-- by 会员 cx1205 (2011/4/9 1:02:20)

说的是真实情况

cyry1109

最好的networking的机会就是teamwork的时候 然后做事认真点就好了 人家觉得你不错自然就跟你多交流了 当然你也不能一个劲的不出声
国外文化如果不清楚的就说自己不知道 老美一般会给你解释的 没什么必要不好意思

-- by 会员 fingereleven (2011/4/10 11:15:12)

不愧是过来人，很受教！

EugenaTENG

My 2 cents of opinion
Gals, be proud of yourself! We ROCK! You know what, most Caucasian have yellow fetich--meaning..GOSH ASIAN CHICK R hot! So we r in advantage for the simply sake, guys are more inclined to talk to you/mingle with you! Good chance for you to know more abt their culture and improve ur English(granted that u r not airhead blond and overly naive chick) Despite the vantage we process, it always help to
1, SMILE! Come on come on come on , chicks! You need to SMILE! Smile is the best lanauge in the world, trust me. Regardless of ur appearance/age/whatever, JUST SMILE! it will soften the hardest heart..and when you smile, intuitively you will be happier..so step 1, PLEASE SMILE!

2, YOU MUST KNOW what you are talking abt. I encountered FIASCO when i was in Belgium when my friends talked abt john mayer.or movie in the 1970. My blank face simply shocked my friends, gosh you ve never heard abt them? How is that possible? So chicks..pay more attenion to the FASION AND ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTYR. sports and celebrity..so that you will at least nod and say..oh ya..he is the actor from XX right? ..Big clap..great convo flows..

3..in the rush to sth now..so TBC

miachi871012

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其实很大一部分找亚洲女人的白人男人都抱着很猥琐的念头……都想试试那个啥，因为亚洲人少，还没搞过，遇到一个就想尝尝鲜啊……

你们懂的…………

susanaedet

My 2 cents of opinion
Gals, be proud of yourself! We ROCK! You know what, most Caucasian have yellow fetich--meaning..GOSH ASIAN CHICK R hot! So we r in advantage for the simply sake, guys are more inclined to talk to you/mingle with you! Good chance for you to know more abt their culture and improve ur English(granted that u r not airhead blond and overly naive chick) Despite the vantage we process, it always help to
1, SMILE! Come on come on come on , chicks! You need to SMILE! Smile is the best lanauge in the world, trust me. Regardless of ur appearance/age/whatever, JUST SMILE! it will soften the hardest heart..and when you smile, intuitively you will be happier..so step 1, PLEASE SMILE!

2, YOU MUST KNOW what you are talking abt. I encountered FIASCO when i was in Belgium when my friends talked abt john mayer.or movie in the 1970. My blank face simply shocked my friends, gosh you ve never heard abt them? How is that possible? So chicks..pay more attenion to the FASION AND ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTYR. sports and celebrity..so that you will at least nod and say..oh ya..he is the actor from XX right? ..Big clap..great convo flows..

3..in the rush to sth now..so TBC

-- by 会员 EugenaTENG (2011/4/10 13:45:12)

谢谢你的建议!很有用很有帮助!你现在在国外读书还是工作呢?

susanaedet

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其实很大一部分找亚洲女人的白人男人都抱着很猥琐的念头……都想试试那个啥，因为亚洲人少，还没搞过，遇到一个就想尝尝鲜啊……

你们懂的…………

-- by 会员 miachi871012 (2011/4/10 15:55:37)

有一部分人是这样,不过也不是都这样啊~我最近见到很多对跨国婚姻的人,看起来都过得挺好的.

EugenaTENG

Studying+ working at the same time? Ve been overrsea since high sch..

zhangyunkai5

bar....LZ是个传统的人吗 要是是的话 女生确实挺难的