等待offer的苦痛

珍惜

以下是引用木川在2004-2-27 22:22:00的发言：
楼上心境真好,佩服!!!



我可是不成,身心疲惫,快撑不住了啊....真希望加入那个"拿到offer,心满意足的准备念书的队伍".

我今年只申请了一家学校，从我寄予出申请材料到现在已快4个月了，在开头的两个月内，我也是心里七上八下的，虽然靠看小说来打发日子。 但觉得每天恍恍惚惚的，很浪费时间。 所以我只好抑了一个每日的学习计划，中间包括看课本，练听力，练舞步，还有就是去湖边走了，这样每天的日子就过得紧凑而紧张起来。 就没空去对未来有太多的惴测了。


我们选择了申请，就选择了等待。 我个人认为，这是个绝好的，培养自己积极面对‘未来不确定性因素’的健康心理的时机。


祝愿我们大家都在这条申请路上，一路走好！    

robertchu

以下是引用珍惜在2004-2-28 8:43:00的发言：


我今年只申请了一家学校，从我寄予出申请材料到现在已快4个月了，在开头的两个月内，我也是心里七上八下的，虽然靠看小说来打发日子。 但觉得每天恍恍惚惚的，很浪费时间。 所以我只好抑了一个每日的学习计划，中间包括看课本，练听力，练舞步，还有就是去湖边走了，这样每天的日子就过得紧凑而紧张起来。 就没空去对未来有太多的惴测了。
我们选择了申请，就选择了等待。 我个人认为，这是个绝好的，培养自己积极面对‘未来不确定性因素’的健康心理的时机。
祝愿我们大家都在这条申请路上，一路走好！  

Although it's a posting from last year, the truth in these simple words still stand and shine.

In my years of career both in China and in the US, I have never doubted my ability to succeed.  But, this time, for more than a few split seconds, I wondered: what if...?

“The whole purpose and meaning of life is to pursue your dream and create values for the society”.  A friend’s wise words never sound truer at this trying time.

So, if this school is going to ding me, it’s not a conviction of my inability.  It either indicates that there isn’t a good match between me and the school, or indicates that I’ve probably made some tactic errors in the application process.  Nothing more.

There are always other equally good schools.  And, you always have the option not to go to b-school.  Life goes on.  Going to a top b-school is not necessarily a guaranteed ticket for success, and not going to b-school does not mean that you can not get where you want.  You will eventually get there, b-school or not, as long as you truly know where you want to go, stick to it, keep the striving on, and keep it focused.  

So, keep your faith.  You will be just fine.

-- To share with friends who are going through the application process.

miaoyin_tx

Well said, Robert, I strongly agreed with you.  I only applied two schools. But no matter what a result is , I will never lose my confidence and my faith. Working on MBA program is a way to lead to success, but it is not the only one.

angelzycat

以下是引用miaoyin_tx在2005-1-6 3:54:00的发言：
Well said, Robert, I strongly agreed with you.  I only applied two schools. But no matter what a result is , I will never lose my confidence and my faith. Working on MBA program is a way to lead to success, but it is not the only one.

     But no matter what a result is , I will never lose my confidence and my faith. Working on MBA program is a way to lead to success, but it is not the only one.

     这才是申请应该有的态度, 不过, 结果出来之前, 该有的焦虑依旧是免不了的.

     

     

tangyang9

I am also waiting for an offer, but I am quite busy. I have so many interviews to attend. Even if I only need 1 hour to prepare one, I still fell quite busy.

mablechen

还在等待中，要3，4月才知道答案！！！

哎。。。。。。。。。。。。。

mumuwa

很就没有这种迫切的怀着希望去等待一种不确定的结果的感觉了.... feels so good!

cranberry

我是把材料送出去就轻松了，至于结果非我能左右。开心不少。答应老婆去海边，一直未兑现，被臭骂了好几次了。现在要还账了，呜呜呜。

DREAMERINSH

I sent out three applications all together. The first one must have been turned down as I had sent it out before the first round and have not received any feedback up to date. I am looking forward to hearing from b/s abt the rest two which were sent by the second round.

I agreed with XDJMs' opinions stated above. Although I did make errors in my applications, I believe I have gained a lot from the time-consuming application process. After years of career in business, it was really an opportunity to systematically define or re-define who I am and where I wanna be in my career.

The result is not something under my control. However, basically I have done what I could.

"I have a dream." No matter how impenetrable and crazy I appear in the others' eyes, I am proud of my dream and drive to pursue further change and challenge in my career.

Working with you guys on CD is really a good exeperience. Best wish to you all!

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delphine18

以下是引用cranberry在2005-1-13 22:20:00的发言：
答应老婆去海边，一直未兑现，被臭骂了好几次了。现在要还账了，呜呜呜。

带你老婆去海边那么不情愿么？看来做你老婆也挺可怜的