一个备战的Gmater的……

hzlqy

这个写得像小说似的啊……我觉得就算有奖学金，经常也是不够cover生活费用……

boazl

sorry I can not put in the Chinese.  I think you should be give up the thought  by yourself.

First, you can not afford the expenses at abroad. If you are excellent person but with a poor family, you will miss the I-20 since you  need to hand in the identification of finance. Most scholarships of MBA program just give you a chance to waive your tuition, rare person can get full-scholarship. Living standard expense at abroad is raising than ever, are you sure you can handle the pressure of finance and can find a job to payoff the loans after graduate?

Second, you are girl, most important thing right now is to find your Mr.right . your half life was terrible, no love, no trust.  Do not miss the man can give you love,  respect, or finance support.

If I were you, I will find a husband who can undersand and support me first, then go out with him to anywhere, go far away from my family.

goldwings

有勇气改变可以改变的，有度量接受不能改变的，用智慧去区别这两者。

楼主自己明白的道理。

我们不能选择父母家人，但可以选择过怎样的人生。

lavender0612

lz，看了你写的很有感触，我相信你是一个很坚强的人，向你学习！这对这种情况，我发表一点自己的看法：
我认为现在考G出国不是你最佳的选择

首先，家庭条件不允许，经济负担只会日益加剧
其次，心理条件不合适，我想如果你与你家人特别是与母亲的心结打不开，自己会受更多的羁绊

所以我认为LZ现在可以找份好工作，等解决好 资金+家庭关系 以后再出国比较合适

痛苦要多久

非常感谢楼上诸多位好心CDER的鼓励支持，祝你们好人好运！

痛苦要多久

thanks

goldwings

楼主根妈妈深入沟通过没有，深入，深入，

如果以上都是误解呢？

痛苦要多久

thanks

痛苦要多久

说白了就是价值观有太大的不同，而且每个人也都在坚持着自己的价值观。

宝贝H小J

好好先把g拿下 其他的以后想吧
至于家人 毕竟有血缘  做力所能及
至于男友 挡我者死