我的情况，思考。写的较详细。希望得到大家的意见

yaoyao99

http://forum.chasedream.com/dispbbs.asp?boardid=13&id=228426&star=1#228426

小秘QQ

以下是引用yaoyao99在2008-9-24 8:43:00的发言：
http://forum.chasedream.com/dispbbs.asp?boardid=13&id=228426&star=1#228426

yaoyao99

以下是引用Decomposer在2008-9-24 21:01:00的发言：

yaoyao99是版主啊，你真可爱。你嫁人没？

这次本来跟我无关，可是，版主妹妹，你能接受你管理的论坛里有人辱骂、恐吓及诅咒吗？

Thank you for the kind words.  I'm not married but am with someone special, =)

I'm no longer a moderator but wish to contribute as a participant, whenever I can, and share some of the learnings to help others get over the hurdle.  It's up to the new moderators to decide the level of hostility they will allow in heated disputes.

From my perspective, all the original questions have been answered and I haven't seen anything new that I can help with.  It's fairly obvious what each person is capable of and chooses to spend his/her time on.  It's too bad this is spiraling into a squabble.  I wish everyone was more positive and accepting.  I also wish this would turn out to be a constructive discussion that help and inspire others but what people choose to say are personal choices and I respect that.

Again, anyone can tell you anything.  It's up to you to make it happen.  Speculation and bickering is not going to help you in any way and no one wins or loses anything here.  Good luck with everything!

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caesar2005

以下是引用yaoyao99在2008-9-25 3:07:00的发言：

Thank you for the kind words.  I'm not married but am with someone special, =)

caesar2005

以下是引用stq在2008-9-24 3:06:00的发言：

我说这话，完全是我有感而发，

这篇从头看下来为啥会吵上的？还不就是楼主说了自己的经历，结果没跑几楼QAZAQQQ就跳出来以很不好的语气怀疑质问LZ么？不单质疑还跟着吵个没完。。。结果LZ火气越来越大。。

但如果你看双方的发言，这人生阅历/看事情的层次上明显差了不是一点半点。。所以我劝楼主跟个小孩子斗嘴玩玩可以，真发脾气就没意思了。。

我同意你对于吵架起因的看法。其实本来lz就是求个咨询，能帮忙的就帮，帮不上的就别出声了，出来质疑之类的是没劲。

不过，对于双方发言的层次，说实话，我没看出来。可能是我的水平低，我能看到的，就是一个自大能吹，一个自卑多疑而已。

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虎清兰

Magic_Yang

以下是引用caesar2005在2008-9-26 1:25:00的发言：

YaoYao 魅力真大啊～～，哈哈～～

parfour

老大，中介写不出可以申请TOP10的essay，就算写出来了，也不是你的！别忘记还有面试这关，口语表达不好，你过不了！然后，学校对比你的essay就会知道是别人写的，你就违反了学校的ethic code，白白浪费中介费和申请费。

所以建议你如果真的申请top10，你的工作背景是够了，你的学术背景，尤其是英语的表达和写作能力需要痛下苦功夫啊，你就奔着1年去吧，什么时候可以不看字幕的看美剧，英语张口就来，滔滔不绝说10分钟就可以开始申请了。尤其是现在的托福IBT，害死了多少人啊。

shaway

以下是引用yaoyao99在2008-9-25 3:07:00的发言：

 I'm not married but am with someone special, =)

Wish I could be special enough to deserve a special girl , like yaoyao....  

[此贴子已经被作者于2008-10-3 15:43:17编辑过]