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Snazzy

Hey, hey, hey ... ... What are you talking about???

1, If your wife is that kind of woman, divorce her. It's not worth any suffer at this point.
2, These days, there are a lot of women who can  give up their love and marriage and look for something easier and better. Get away from them.
3, You are not alone. I have heard of a lot of stories that couples are very good at home but separate after coming abroad. The reason is that some of them can not experience the great change in life and, most probably, can not resist the temptation of material wealth in the western world.
4, It's not easy to find a girl who can share joys and sorrows with you these days, although I believe there must have some out there. Most of them can enjoy a good, easy and wealthy life. It's easy anyway. Who the hell knows whether they can share some hard time, which is nearly unavoidable in life time?
5, You had better give up GMAT or coming abroad if you just want to come out for her. She doesn't deserve it. However, if you think your experience abroad can enrich your career and life, do it, man. Don't be disturbed by the change in you marriage.
6, I am a bit touched by your story. You are a man who can sacrifice for love. Keep in mind; you only sacrifice for those who deserve your love. She doesn't deserve anything.
7, Life is going on, no matter what ... It's understandable that you are experiencing a hard time. Believe me, everything will be over. Tomorrow is another day.
8, As a man, you should cheer up. Love is nice. Everybody wants to have immortal love. But only few lucky ones can get it eventually. Given the uncertainty, you had better concentrate on your career. Probably you can give your love to your parents, your siblings, if you have any, and those who love you. That will make life easier for you at the moment.
9, Don't hate her or humiliate her. It's not worth it. Always look at a cup half full instead of half empty. Maybe you should even thank her for helping you find out what kind of woman she is in the early stage of your marriage. Just imagine, what if you can't find it until 20 or 30 years later?
10, Man, understand everybody will experience a lot of frustrations in life. You don't live for anybody. Think about the other beautiful things in this world, the sunshine in the morning, the kids playing in the park, the bright future in your career path, the coming gathering with your family, ...  Life won’t lose its beauty just because of her.  Stand up, man!

Snazzy

Hey, hey, hey ... ... What are you talking about???

1, If your wife is that kind of woman, divorce her. It's not worth any suffer at this point.

2, These days, there are a lot of women who can  give up their love and marriage and look for something easier and better. Get away from them.

3, You are not alone. I have heard of a lot of stories that couples are very good at home but separate after coming abroad. The reason is that some of them can not experience the great change in life and, most probably, can not resist the temptation of material wealth in the western world.

4, It's not easy to find a girl who can share joys and sorrows with you these days, although I believe there must have some out there. Most of them can enjoy a good, easy and wealthy life. It's easy anyway. Who the hell knows whether they can share some hard time, which is nearly unavoidable in life time?

5, You had better give up GMAT or coming abroad if you just want to come out for her. She doesn't deserve it. However, if you think your experience abroad can enrich your career and life, do it, man. Don't be disturbed by the change in you marriage.

6, I am a bit touched by your story. You are a man who can sacrifice for love. Keep in mind; you only sacrifice for those who deserve your love. She doesn't deserve anything.

7, Life is going on, no matter what ... It's understandable that you are experiencing a hard time. Believe me, everything will be over. Tomorrow is another day.

8, As a man, you should cheer up. Love is nice. Everybody wants to have immortal love. But only few lucky ones can get it eventually. Given the uncertainty, you had better concentrate on your career. Probably you can give your love to your parents, your siblings, if you have any, and those who love you. That will make life easier for you at the moment.

9, Don't hate her or humiliate her. It's not worth it. Always look at a cup half full instead of half empty. Maybe you should even thank her for helping you find out what kind of woman she is in the early stage of your marriage. Just imagine, what if you can't find it until 20 or 30 years later?

10, Man, understand everybody will experience a lot of frustrations in life. You don't live for anybody. Think about the other beautiful things in this world, the sunshine in the morning, the kids playing in the park, the bright future in your career path, the coming gathering with your family, ...  Life won’t lose its beauty just because of her.  Stand up, man!

Allen

以下是引用miejue在2004-1-2 14:10:00的发言：
最后 bow一个 勉以谢罪

Brother, you bow to no one! She could be right at what she has done, but you are absolutely not wrong.

Joey

顶。。。。。
到meijue出现。

hodgechen

幸好在同一天看到帖子,否则来的晚了,MEIJUE 非敲我满脑袋包不可.

才知道你的事情,不说什么了,感情的事谁都有道理,
我猜想你的女人说,"我不愿意跟太优秀的人在一起,那种压力受不了"
因为你做什么成什么,是这样的,
所以放她飞吧

成功的人永远是孤独的
今夜,兄弟我万里之外举杯小酌,遥祝兄弟你享受痛苦的快乐
他日,我辈登顶入殿堂之时,必定成为百毒不沁的老狐狸,
(你可能还兼着老流氓的头衔)
遥想今日之痛,定悲难以再得

我亲爱的兄弟
趁你青春韶华
感受生命给你的刺青吧





看到此贴前,我以给你发了短消息,
你的衣钵之事,请你定夺吧.
兄弟我没有话说,按照你的屁股(SORRY,是马屁股)是瞻吧

rolling

为你婚姻的不幸而惋惜，但感情和事业不是一回事，感情的伤痛不应该影响你的事业，出去走一走，放松一下心情，仔细想一想应不应该走回这条路，但绝不要感情用事，这是一个成熟男人应该具有的品格。
真诚的祝福你！

dansy

我觉得现在和miejue说什么他可能没有情绪听，虽然他会很感激大家对他的关心。如果有人有过感情上受伤的经历，我相信都能了解那一刻的痛苦，绝不是别人的安慰与鼓舞所能治疗的。每个人的个性与性情决定了他的想法与抉择。人生中有很多事都是在当时不能参透的。让我们在这里期待他的再次到来吧，如果真的不再到CD来，他心里有CD就好了。也许一段时间之后，miejue又会与大家有一份其他的渊源吧。

casamila

两个人不再一起,
尤其实女孩一个人在国外,
最后都是这样.....
当初送她出去的时候
一切都会发生变化
爱是最不持久的东西

christinahong

miejue GG,我还吃惊为什么这么久不见你了？原来如此……
新年新气象，让自己好好休息一下，人生是经常会有许多不如意事。
人不长大就不会有许多烦恼，但这是每个人都必须经历的。
不论是执著、固执、坚持，褒义也好，贬义也罢，做好自己应该做的事情，让自己问心无愧。这样也已经很好了！
许多GGJJ说的很好，让自己的心情放一个假，让别人快乐，也让自己快乐！：）
miejue GG,新年快乐！也祝所有的XDJM快乐！：）

sweetcorn

孩子他干爹，别放弃啊! 我们都在这儿顶着等你回来呢