我想说的是,那director好得一塌糊涂,热情得不行,从录取开始给我打了好几个电话,写了好些email, 口吻非常周到细心善解人意,我还是拒了,心里觉得很对不起他。结果昨天他回信了,说“As we, and you, move forward in the process, should your situation change and you wish for us to consider you for entrance into our PhD program, please do not hesitate to contact me. We wish you the best in your academic pursuits.”