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慕容楠生

以下是引用phaedra在2008-1-15 19:40:00的发言：

你们举的那叫帅哥？？？？？难道我审美观有问题？？都可以称之为regular以下了，华仔也就老了好看点而已，俺比较喜欢干净点的男生。。

simonshen,帅不帅俺是不知道啦，不过呢，像你这么幽默的男生不用靠长相就可以去美国勾搭女生了，哈哈

___看来Scofield有希望勉强符合你的口味。

siwfly

LZ 如果工作背景那么好的话，为什么不再申请好一点的学校？？

ulcerated

Big city Chinese girls never know what they want, and will never appreciate the decent guys who go after them. So in the end they become those depressing 30 year old senorita in Eileen Chang's book or the alfa female like Condy Rice that everyone just stay away from.

Relationship is not about power-play, it is about compromising!

BTW, Tulane has some serious latino money!

ulcerated

___看来Scofield有希望勉强符合你的口味。


Unfortunately, he is gay

小夕

呵~这帖~~~

CD应该开piebridge版！

phaedra

Top 10 reject ibt<100......

phaedra

Big city Chinese girls never know what they want, and will never appreciate the decent guys who go after them!!!!!!?????

ulcerated, I do not think so.

Just because the big city Chinese girls know what they what, they do not appreciate some decent guys who go after them.

Because the soul mate is few and the material mate is not their tea.

So not to say The City Girls, Just to consider The City Boys!

Remember the SIX Friends?  Woman want kiss, Man just want sex. It is an example.

Why the NOT-CITY girls know what they want? I have to say some reasons are from materials. So Most Man do not like independent girls because they know that they cannot grasp them by money or any other material pressure such as house and car. They can only grasp them by their soul, their true love. But they not have or just do not want to pay.

So the family is easy to depart now. the soul is not connected.

ulcerated

Ha, it is more complicated than that. It is true that there are a lot
of playas in China, but don't overlook the fact that China also has one
of the highest rate of virgin guys over 25! Especially in the category
where you would consider decent. The ones who are really educated with
decent qualities, aspirations and visions just don't F*** around! There
are tons of family guys in China, most of them are not attractive to
women for various reasons as the chinese old saying: "男人不坏，女人不爱".

    

//Bank of China is one of the SOEs with the most "playa" 

    

I won't comment on the independent women part, because it a very sensitive spot.
However, I do want to say this, it is fact that most of the Beijing/Shanghai girls
today who come from well positioned families are spoiled princesses in
their families, thus making it very difficult for them to compromise
with the situation of their counterparts, especially with the in-laws.
This is indeed the biggest problem of all marriages! 

    

Just
like your typical middle women managers (often in HR/Office
Administration), who will always put in extra effort to prove their
presence or relevance in operation where their efforts are often
greatly appreciated but not necessary.

    

Give you a extreme
example here (but true), this is one of the very famous executive in
China who held senior positions with Electrolux, Shell and Motorola (2
Million Yuan + pay packages). She was formally a flight attendant of
Air China, who then got marry to one of the VIP kids in China. After 2
years at the Second Foreign Language University of Beijing, she was
recruited into Electrolux, and quickly moved up as the chief of
marketing there. Soon after she took over the chief marketing director
position, she established a policy in her division: Only English is
allowed in meeting. Well, I think you know the rest of the story.

    

The real successful career women are always successful wife and mom at the same time.

    

PS
MOST of the top 10 don't have minimum score on IBT, and MIT does not
require TOEFL. The minimum score on the new TOEFL is being considered
as a joke for the top tier schools, since the English test score
often reveals very less English communication abilities. The lower tier
ones actually would enforce it just to prove its legitimacy.

If
you are a truly standout candidate, someone who has great potential to
become a star in the industry, why is TOEFL score still relevant to the
schools?

[此贴子已经被作者于2008-1-16 21:31:45编辑过]

phaedra

But I still see the minimum ibt score in the top 10 web. I really do not know they do not care it.

ps, I do not believe in myself some time. Maybe you can say I know myself. I think top 10 is out of my reach.

The real successful career women are always successful wife and mom at the same time. Yes, I agree. But the successful women are always not.

男人不坏，女人不爱?? I think this kind of women are fool. Why she will believe the bad boy be good to her but bad to others? Tell the truth, My friends all think so. But although China also has one of the highest rate of virgin guys over 25, their soul maybe not virgin. Now many chinese guys are not responsible or cannot be responsible for their family. Too many.... especially in Beijing and Shanghai. So not to complain about the guys and the girls in big city, Just to complain about the environment. Too many people love money, house, car or the pretty boy or girl and forget their responsiblity.

So I do not want to distinct the city boy/girl, I just want to distinct the responsible and independent boy/girl.

dogtag

LZ我和你差不多 24 年薪15w

现在也在出国准备中，出吧，还犹豫个啥呢