非牛人offer犹豫，大家给点意见巴，谢谢

carolinelmf

如果这个salary已经是ceiling就去读吧

easy4meeeeee

不怕扫诸位的兴

我悄悄问一声 30～50的毕业了在美国就业率怎么样 咨询业或者物流

另外，如果倾向于回国发展，那么30～50的美国学校和国内的学校哪个性价比更高呢 好像长江是一年吧

hill1005

说起DATE, 强烈推荐FLOWERJAY，人帅，讲义气，又要去美国

FlowerJay

LS偶像大晚上不睡觉，又出来恶心小的

Whitney

楼主mm,
I know that it is hard to hear something you don't like.  What is your parents' opinion? 

Your height at 175cm is actually bad for you because it limits your choice.  Tall girls want to meet tall, smart, wealthy, and caring gentlman.  But the odd is against them. But, everthing is possible.  My cousin is pretty girl with a height of 178cm.  She was chased by her husband (he is 188cm) since high school (in 1982 !!!).  She was from "hu he hao te" and took her undergraduate in PKU;  her husband followed her by going to Tsing hua; He went to PKU almost every week to send her grapes.  Sometimes, there was another guy who tried to date my cousin; He just waved his fists and said "Please talk fast, I am waiting outside now." or " I can wait because I am not busy today.  XXX, can I borrow your New Concept English book? I have an exam tomorrow." He told me that it took him 8 years before they were married.   Today, this kind of men are rare.  For 30 years-old 处男, you'd better learn these tricks -dedication and shameless (or fearless).

But most gg (or mm) won't have such dedication, they chased girls for a while and if they cannot receive their anticipation, they will quit because they felt it not worth - what is difference bewteen a gf 165cm and a gf 170cm?  For example, I am 184 cm, when I looked gf, I didn't care too much about her height as long as she wasn't too short.  Of course, my classmates who are short always want to find a tall gf. 

For single mm or 30 years-old 处男, your dream gf/bf are unlikely to chase you (You have waited for 10 years, right?); so that you have to chase them.  It is you to chase the dream; it is not the dream to chase you.
Good luck. 

angy2007

UF Finance还可以拉. 不过UF MBA里international不太多, 所以针对international student的career service不是很好.

LZ的申请什么时候交的现在就有结果了? 还有, 能透露一下background吗?

ctian

If I were you, I would go Tulane. The school is better than others, and you will find job after graduate, depending what job you are looking for.

Still young, still have choices to make, maybe it is wrong, but you have time to correct it.  Yes, you will lose money, but you will make it in your whole life.  Why care these 2 years salary.

phaedra

Whitney, I think you did not grasp my idea.

first, I mentioned 175cm not to list it as my advantage, but to list my disadvantage. I know it is hard for 175cm girl to find a bf. So it is listed to refute your conclusion that I am a regular- girl. Not for others. (I am really a regular girl ,but every girl will refute other's word except herself. So ..)what is difference bewteen a gf 165cm and a gf 170cm? I do not think 170cm is an advantage to me. So ....

Second, 30 years-old 处男? Why do you mention that kind of people? some different meaning?

Third, You said: For single mm or 30 years-old 处男, your dream gf/bf are unlikely to chase you (You have waited for 10 years, right?); so that you have to chase them.  It is you to chase the dream; it is not the dream to chase you.
  

I totally disagree. I have waited for 10 years to find my Mr.right. But not to wait for them to chase me. Tell the truth, till then ,nobody ever make me love him.  if I find my bf cannot make me love him, I will tell him and leave him.  So i have to say, the choice depends on two parts, not only the boy. I will never find a husband for a husband. Soul factor is the most important, not the material. So a girl who earns much always is difficult to find the right one. 

Finally, not to mention my parents, I can decide my life! Do you think the woman must find a husband for their parents???? My parent's hope is my happiness,not just a husband. So if the husband cannot make me happier than myself, he is unnecessary. My opinion is that marriage without true love is worse than single because I can live by myself. I do not need his salary for the car, the house and so on. Even i will have a husband, I will have my own car and house. The only difference is that I have a two-person home. I have no pressure from the material or the parents. if any from my parents, I will never change. 

Conclusion: 幸福 and happiness are all my want. But I can give me by myself. Maybe someone said, 幸福 is given by others. But I say , no. Only the 不幸 can not be given by yourself. There are many kinds of love. I love animals. I pay much to protect them. I love my parents. Because they do not need my money, I can only give them my happiness. I want a lover. But I donot need a lover. they are different.

And if I love a boy, I can chase him. I donot care. Donot wait someone, Chase someone. Be a doer.

[此贴子已经被作者于2008-1-16 12:25:55编辑过]

phaedra

background:

big four bank, 总部，北京， 金融学硕士，一流大学，05.7参加工作

gmat, 720

ibt, 97(speak:18)

ll_422

以下是引用phaedra在2008-1-15 11:10:00的发言：

都是30后的学校了，大家不要笑话哈，我的ibt成绩太低了。。。

已经确定拿到的有：Tulane, tuition waiver,

                                Missouri, tuition waiver, GA($9000+)

                               University of Florida, Tuition waiver, GA($8200 USD), but have to pay some course fee(in-state statandard, about $5000)

Depend on my luck: BU waitlist.

still no information: U.T. Austin.

给点建议哈，我个人觉得Tulane地方不好，missouri排名太差，UF不晓得地方如何，风景应该不错，哪位大人可以评价一下florida找工作方便否？以我去年的运势来说，很有可能要去uf。

另外，如果哪位牛人不去bu，推荐一下我，万分感谢阿！

再ps: 我是女性，27了，single,银行总行工作，年薪18万左右，工作强度不大，大家顺便给点意见，从您自己的角度看值不值得放弃工作。不要大道理喔，就假设您处于这种状态，自己的选择哈，谢谢大家！

why not wait a year for top 10? consider about it .