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Some young adult want independent from their parents as soon as possible. Other young adults prefer to live with their families fro a longer time. Which of these situations do you think is better? Use specific reasons and examples to support your opinion. Some young adults desire to be independent from their Parents as soon as possible, others, on the contrary, hold the different opinions. However, almost all young adults will leave parents to live their own lives one day. Leaving earlier seems much better than later. Currently, investigations have revealed that dependent lives are too pleasant for young adults to get accustomed to facing the future challenges. For instance, it is no longer the up-to-date news that a certain part of students, who have graduated from the colleges or universities for several years, were found to stay at home and enjoy their lives instead of working outside. There might be reasons behind. Perhaps the job markets are still under depression. Perhaps competitions are too severe. Or perhaps longer time preparation will enable them to have an excellent start. Nonetheless, it is no doubt that all these ridiculous excuses are not persuasive at all. These young adults, though physically mature, are not mature mentally. The more they rely on their parents, the less capable they will be of engaging in their social lives. And loss of such dependence would even probably be disasters to them. In this case, it is the independent life, not the dependent life that prepare young adults for near future. As mentioned above, the competitions for career and development have become impetuous. Young adults step into the world without considerable help from parents have to confront with the difficulties and solve problems on their own. As the early bird catches the worms, the early independent young adults hold the opportunities. Since they start earlier, they adapt to the new environment and gain the practical experience ahead of the others, thereby arming themselves solidly. Chances are that they are more like to achieve their goals because the opportunity always favor those who are well prepared. Moreover, the necessity for young adult to start the independence live as earlier as possible is self-evident, if parents are also taken into consideration. Most of the young adults grown in ordinary families have ordinary parents, who are about 45 - 50 years old. Both the economic burden and the responsibilities for children have deprived them of pleasure. For example, many middle aged couples already complained that they have got tired of living like a forever-rotating gear in the machine for more than 10 years in working and taking care of children. They are thirsty for different arrangements in the rest of their lives, such as traveling around the world, reading novels, or just taking a long period of break. Thus, it is high time for their mature children—the young adults to set out new independent journeys, which enable their parents to be released from the liabilities. To summaries, only young adults with intelligence, courage and thoughtfulness will determine to be independence from their parents as soon as possible. It is their brightness, bravery and consideration that result in their inevitably future achievement. | 
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发表于 2007-8-30 00:20:00
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