求拍:marry someone similar to you/different from you

nevertheless

It is better to marry someone who is similar to you, rather than someone who is different from you.

 

Although myriads of novels and movies have told stories about romantic marriage between two people share little similarity, I prefer marrying someone who is similar to a different one. Because a happy marriage is based on harmony, and a couple similar to each other is a guarantee of harmony.

 

The threshold reason of my preference is that a couple holding similar perspective of life might lead a life devoid of conflict. Immediately after young couples get married, they have to find a place to build up the little family. Two examples from my relatives vividly illustrated my viewpoints. One couple quickly reached an agreement: living in the urban area. Another couple quarreled for a long time, arguing whether to set their home in the suburban region or in the center of the city. Despite the wife comprised finally, she kept on complaining the inconveniency of living far from working places several years after their marriage.

 

In addition, marrying someone has similar interests could bring more enjoyment in later life. Provided they have same hobbies, they could savor the pleasure of various activities, such as seeing movies, traveling around the country, or even playing games. One of my friend once described how delight it is when she took a trip to Hawaii on a sailing trip with her husband and her retrospection about the reason why she married him-they have much in common, especially their enthusiasm of traveling! On the contrary, couples having less in common might not experience such agreeable things in their life, maybe one will discourage the other from engaging in such activities, at least not support he/she. It is rather a pity.

 

Furthermore, the possibility of devorcement between two different people is more than similar persons. Owing to different points of view towards fundamental issues in life, for example, whether to have a child or not, many young couples devoiced. After that, they might regret choosing someone divergent from them. Consequently, having a husband/wife whose attitude is nearly the same could avoid this unpleased fracture.

 

All in all, in order to have a harmonious family, I am prone to choose a mate who is similar to me. In that case, our life will be filled with enjoyment, harmony and fewer conflicts.

自己觉得论点写得不太好,欢迎拍!

prefer to marry someone similar to me

1 easier to reach agreement, fewer conflicts

2 share enjoyments

3 different--more likely to devorce

德克的猪

Although myriads of novels and movies have told inconceivable stories about romantic marriage between two people share little similarity, I prefer marrying someone who is similar to a different one(这里画线部分的表达我不太理解.你可以将开头丰富一下:Although myriads of novels and movies have told us those inconceivable stories about romantic marriages between young men and women from wholly different backgrounds, I still stay clear-headed-those stories are, to a certain extent, not true. And fairly reverse to those love stories, I unshakably believe that only when two similar people marry can happiness be expected). Because a happy marriage is based on harmony, and a couple similar to each other is a guarantee of harmony.

 

The threshold reason of my preference is that a couple holding similar perspective of life might lead a life devoid(devoid是缺乏的意思,用在这里给人的感觉反而是:应该要有冲突,所以我建议用free of/far away from conflicts) of conflict. Immediately after young couples get married, they have to find a place to build up the little family(何为the little family?). Two examples from my relatives vividly illustrated my viewpoints. One couple quickly reached an agreement: living in the urban area. Another couple quarreled for a long time(nearly four months,编一些具体的数字!), arguing whether to set their home in the suburban region or in the center of the city. Despite the wife comprised(conceded) finally, she kept on complaining(grumbling更能表现她怨妇的形象) the inconveniency of(brought by/came with,有的时候,尝试用这样的动词) living far from working places several years after their marriage.

 

In addition, marrying someone has similar interests could bring more enjoyment in later life. Provided they have same hobbies, they could savor the pleasure of various activities, such as seeing movies, traveling around the country, or even playing games. One of my friend once described how delight(delightful) it is when she took a trip to Hawaii on a sailing trip with her husband and her retrospection about the reason why she married him-they have much in common, especially their enthusiasm of traveling! On the contrary, couples having less in common might not experience such agreeable things in their life, maybe one will discourage the other from engaging in such activities, at least not support he/she. It is rather a pity.(What a pity!感叹一下未尝不可)

 

Furthermore, the possibility of divorcement between two different people is more than similar persons. Owing to different points of view towards fundamental issues in life, for example, whether to have a child or not, many young couples devoiced(divorced). After that, they might regret choosing someone divergent from them. Consequently, having a husband/wife whose attitude is nearly the same could avoid this unpleased fracture.

 

All in all, in order to have a harmonious family, I am prone to choose a mate who is similar to me. In that case, our life will be filled with enjoyment, harmony and few(用few表示几乎没有) conflicts.

还是保持了很高的写作水平,考试成功!

nevertheless

谢谢德克.祝福明天!