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想听听各位女生们在金融业的职业规划!

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发表于 2007-11-2 11:33:00 | 显示全部楼层

JM们说的都很有道理,我根本没有什么金融背景,本科学的英语(也学了几门跟商科相关的课程),现在学的传媒,正在准备G申请MBA或者MSF,可是说真的,自己都不是特别喜欢,但又不知道为什么要去做。比起读书,我可能更想工作,可是又没有工作经验,都不知道自己该干什么了。姐姐告诉我说没有工作经验也无妨,只要G考出高分,但高又能高到哪儿,顶多满分。对于那些top b-school,难道他们不看重工作经验吗?左右为难中。。。

发表于 2007-11-25 07:18:00 | 显示全部楼层

I believe many girls are facing this dilemma: Is it better to be a “MingLiU","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">小女人” and marry to a successful man? Or is it better to be a successful woman yourself as a MingLiU","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">女強人but men might become afraid at your name tag.

Personally, I don’t want to be aMingLiU","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">小女人 like Jap girls (shoot, I hope Jap gal don’t read this post) all they say are yes yes yes.. with no thinking. I think that waste the purpose of being a human being.

However, I don’t want to be a MingLiU","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">女強人 neither.  I value having a family is a very important part of my life.  I don’t want to be a top banker (part of reason, I don’t think I have the ability to do so.. hahah) and no man is going marry me when I turn 35. I think that’s pathetic.

So,  what we girls do? Everyone is different of course. For me, having a family is essential in my life but I don’t want my future husband think I am stupid or ignorance. I want to be comparable to my future husband. I believe two of us should stay at the same level. I believe today’s woman need to have the ability to be independent; therefore, I believe having her own career is a way to go. This is just how I feel. My perspective might change in the future. I don’t know.

My short term goal -> aiming for 700 Gmat in a month. à Top MBA school (once I have that 700 Gmat) à sales related position in IB à of course having my own company is the end.

Good luck to all girls à wish all our dreams come true.


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发表于 2007-11-25 09:44:00 | 显示全部楼层

I will add sth. to your words:=) 1, even though you are 35, you still can embrace marriage and family; 2, Actually, your target is high or you position yourself as a successful professional woman in the future:=), 3,back to the topic of the post, what is woman's competence on financial world where the game rule is created and controlled by the smartest ppl, espcially smart man? You want to target to sales related position in IB, that maybe a better chioce compared with analysis related position in IB I guess, because only you know yourselves.Am I right? Good luck. 

 楼主| 发表于 2007-11-30 00:26:00 | 显示全部楼层

时隔半年再回来看自己当初发的帖,发现这个话题是永远的热门啊~

我自己这半年也思考了很多,应该算是渐渐找到自己的方向了

祝所有姐妹们在金融行业找到自己的位置,生活幸福哦

发表于 2008-1-3 15:50:00 | 显示全部楼层

只要我们永远保持TIMELESS, ENGERGY & BALANCE,一切都会在控制中的。

发表于 2008-1-7 08:14:00 | 显示全部楼层

Corporate finance jobs in corporate could be a good choice. No pressure and huge workload as IB, but still providing good career path; while you can definitely have the balance of work and life.

Personal opinion

发表于 2008-2-24 13:55:00 | 显示全部楼层

进IB是需要放弃很多东西的,这就涉及到权衡利弊。看看各位的幸福指数是如何定义的。

其实MBA并不是我的最高梦想。找到最适合自己的专业,一直做下去。也是令人快乐的。

我已经是在读金融硕了。打算去国外进一步深造。各位姐妹们有同行的,联系我。

发表于 2008-3-26 22:29:00 | 显示全部楼层

大家那么想拥有自己的公司吗?我在22岁的时候在深圳小试了一把,那种压力比我在外企拿着外币打工的压力不是一回事的.财务上,市场,人员招聘,自己打工的时候连想都不用想的问题,轮到自己做老板就完全不一样了.当然了,我那时太嫩了,试了一年下来,我以失败告终.

关于事业与婚姻孰轻孰重,我不知道姐妹们都怎么想的.我个人是100%绝对把婚姻爱情放在事业之前的.经营好自己的爱情和小家,是需要爱心,耐心,忍让和牺牲的.尤其是有了孩子以后,孩子对母亲的需要是惊人的.我女儿每天晚上紧紧地抓着我的胳膊肘,睡沉了才放手的.我想晚上读圣经都要等女儿睡沉了,轻手轻脚溜出卧室.

有了一个幸福的家,有了先生的支持理解,女性在事业上,不管是哪一行,才可以没有顾虑地如鱼得水般地去发挥,去闪光.

在国内呢,家里老人通常可以帮帮手,在家务上和孩子上,关系复杂一些,各种人际关系,比如婆媳...在国外呢,通常是夫妻两个人共同承担所有家务,时间就显得格外宝贵.事业,婚姻和孩子都需要时间和精力.保持平衡是最重要的

发表于 2008-4-3 14:46:00 | 显示全部楼层

工作不是生活的全部。

你想要怎样的生活,决定了你会选择怎样的工作。

我觉得楼主可能不是迷茫你的职业规划,而是不清楚你到底想要怎样的生活

You might not even have a picture of it

发表于 2008-4-14 21:25:00 | 显示全部楼层

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