申请的代价

siebel

以下是引用qinmiju在2003-11-5 19:12:00的发言：
时空的距离很难逾越的。我也曾无比虔诚地觉得只要有爱，没有克服不了的困难。可是太多的例子，俯拾皆是，证明现实不是我想象。。。所以向那位男士致敬！！很可能正是他的决断避免了分手的结局呀。这个可能性，我想是大于80％的

My confusion is that is this 避免了分手的结局 worth, not from the view of man's sacrifice, but from the view of real 爱, the real family, or the real 感情.

If this 80% probability will occur on my family, please let it happen as soon as possible. Who can guarantee I will accompany her forever? If 2 years is already long enought to change the love or 感情, how about $2million, how about 2 millinaires? If 时空的距离 is the excuse to kick out the commitment, what else cannot be the excuse?

I didn't mention the stupid sacrifice the man offered. Not only man, but also woman, is stupid to make such decision.

All in all, Maybe this is kind of love some people defined. However, to me, if the lady will leave me because of 时空的距离, I must make a huge mistake at the beginning. If I made such stupid mistake, I will be so happy to know it by the lady's leaving.

zongtong

很多年过去了，楼主现在是否觉得值得？

GHOSTFACE

楼主的男朋友就这么被放弃了。。。~其实申请重要还是感情重要对不同人有不同的选择，也不一定申了好学校就要换男朋友吧，支持楼主平衡申请和感情哈哈