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as known to all, marriage is so important that everyone should attach most importance to it. thus, when someone refers to the issue of the people to marry, we would think twice before giving our opinion. different people may provide different answers, due to the different education backgrounds and life experience and so forth.as far as i am concerned, i would say that i will try to marry a woman sharing the same personality with me.and i will try to explain it in the following paragraphs.

in the first place, based on the daily influence from my relatives who can not get along well due to the totally different personality, i would not willing to experience the same life as them. once i visit their house with my father, we can communicate for a long time. unfortunately, they always quarreled about some topic and maintain their own opinions without retreat. so it is natural for them not to get along well with each other in the daily life. how can people steer their boats towards the danger that have been warned against?

in the second place, i believe that it is better to give the children a good environment to study if we choose to marry with people who share the same personality with us. can you imagine that the child with a bag is crying aloud in the corner while the parents still quarrel about how to decorate their house? absolutely, it will distort the children's impression on their parents and can finally lead to the childeren's odd behaviors,such as low-selfesteem and so forth if they frequently contact with that. and i still strongly believe that once the parents' personality is totally different, they will not get along well with each other and lead a happy life in the future. what's worse, it may result in the divorce, which will do great harm to the children's development.

although some people may argue that once you marry a person with a different personality from you, they can help each other in certain occasions. for example, if the husband oftern hesitate to make a decision and trap into the torture of the making a choice, he may obtain the help from his wife whois oftern decisive in doing things. thus, the wife can help the husband make a decision avoiding the loss of potential benefit. this is especially true in China, if a husband can always listen to his wife's opinion. and as Chinese proverbs says, "once you can obey your wife's opinion, you will become rich in the future. however, be a Chinese though, i am still skeptical about its authenticity. can you imagine that if the wife's opinion is wrong and you still have to adopt it? how can you imagine the result?

in conclusion, taking all the fators discussed above, i still strongly supoort that a person should marry someone whose personality is the same with you .

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