这个口语题的论点怎么想好?

iBeatTrick

第一印象和长期接触对人的了解哪个更准确，为什么。

怎么说啊?

robertrobert

长期更准确:

1. 第一印象往往JUST 外表.

2. 长期接触会发觉很多潜在的优点.

只想到两点...

masc127

我手上刚好有范文，当我练打字啦。

One should spend time geeting to know people before judging them. I know that I do not always make the best first impression, even when I truly like the people I am with. We all have bad days, and I would not want to lose a job or a new friend simply because I picked out the wrong clothing or said the wrong thing..................

Or:

Some people think it is unfair to judge others based on first impressions, but I disagree. People can show us who they really are in just a few minutes. Even if someone is having an unusually bad day, it is still easy to see their true character. If I don't like someone at first, I don't want to waste time being friendly just because he or she might change later. First impressions give us valuable information.
It does't take long for people to show their true character . Some people think you have to see how people act in different situations and talk to them a lot to get to know them. I don't believe this is true. When you meet someone, pay attention to how the person greets you. You can see right away if the person if friendly or shy, polite or rude. See how the person tries to make conversation and you will know what topics are interesting to him or her. All of this gives us a lot fo information about a person.
Even on a bad day, you can see what a person is really like. Some people think that it is not fair to judge people quickly because they might be baving a bad day. I disgreeA bad day tells you a lot about people. You can see how they react to bad situations. Do they get very angry or take it all in stride? Do they get depressed and cry or just try to forget the problem? These are important parts of a person's character.
I feel I can learn a lot abut a person in a few minutes, so I don't want to waste my time if the first impression is not good. If I don't like the way a person greets me, or if I am uncomfortable with the way a person responds to a bad situation, will my impression change later on? Porbably not. If I spend more time with the person, I will probably just see more of the same. I would prefer to spend that time looking for people who I like.
First impressions can tell us a lot about a person, no matter what the circumstances. We can learn enough to decide whether or not we want to spend more time with that person.I always rely on first impressions.

iBeatTrick

以下是引用robertrobert在2006-11-6 14:04:00的发言：

长期更准确:

1. 第一印象往往JUST 外表.

2. 长期接触会发觉很多潜在的优点.

只想到两点...

谢谢

iBeatTrick

以下是引用masc127在2006-11-6 14:37:00的发言：
我手上刚好有范文，当我练打字啦。

One should spend time geeting to know people before judging them. I know that I do not always make the best first impression, even when I truly like the people I am with. We all have bad days, and I would not want to lose a job or a new friend simply because I picked out the wrong clothing or said the wrong thing..................

Or:

Some people think it is unfair to judge others based on first impressions, but I disagree. People can show us who they really are in just a few minutes. Even if someone is having an unusually bad day, it is still easy to see their true character. If I don't like someone at first, I don't want to waste time being friendly just because he or she might change later. First impressions give us valuable information.
It does't take long for people to show their true character . Some people think you have to see how people act in different situations and talk to them a lot to get to know them. I don't believe this is true. When you meet someone, pay attention to how the person greets you. You can see right away if the person if friendly or shy, polite or rude. See how the person tries to make conversation and you will know what topics are interesting to him or her. All of this gives us a lot fo information about a person.
Even on a bad day, you can see what a person is really like. Some people think that it is not fair to judge people quickly because they might be baving a bad day. I disgreeA bad day tells you a lot about people. You can see how they react to bad situations. Do they get very angry or take it all in stride? Do they get depressed and cry or just try to forget the problem? These are important parts of a person's character.
I feel I can learn a lot abut a person in a few minutes, so I don't want to waste my time if the first impression is not good. If I don't like the way a person greets me, or if I am uncomfortable with the way a person responds to a bad situation, will my impression change later on? Porbably not. If I spend more time with the person, I will probably just see more of the same. I would prefer to spend that time looking for people who I like.
First impressions can tell us a lot about a person, no matter what the circumstances. We can learn enough to decide whether or not we want to spend more time with that person.I always rely on first impressions.

谢谢,但我没看到它哪里说到第一印象对人的了解更准确.感觉没切题.

psycheyaoyao

长期接触更准确

1 第一印象往往是比较直观的感受而不是理性的评价,所以不能准确反映一个人实际的情况

2 长期接触中可以通过与他们的交流,合作,竞争中更了解这个人,比如内向还是开朗啊,团结还是自私啊,个人价值观了,举个例子,本来以为00是个内向的人,因为打扮很老实,长期接触才知道私下很热情好客

呵呵,偷个懒就不写英文了

iBeatTrick

以下是引用psycheyaoyao在2006-11-6 16:04:00的发言：

长期接触更准确

1 第一印象往往是比较直观的感受而不是理性的评价,所以不能准确反映一个人实际的情况

2 长期接触中可以通过与他们的交流,合作,竞争中更了解这个人,比如内向还是开朗啊,团结还是自私啊,个人价值观了,举个例子,本来以为00是个内向的人,因为打扮很老实,长期接触才知道私下很热情好客

呵呵,偷个懒就不写英文了

感谢!