求助: Should I go or wait for one year -about Duke（兼MBA申请坦诚版）

nostalgia83

以下是引用Dole在2005-4-7 1:14:00的发言：

dddccc你的决定早就决定了不是吗？ 我好像看出来了。你已经作了决定重申，你希望得到一些支持，来坚定自己的信念和证明自己的想法是正确的。我没看错吗？

如果我想做一件事情，我妈说不我爸说不我男朋友说不，我朋友说不，但如果我走在马路上突然听到一个路过人说了句do it。管他是和街对面的dog说的还是和他老婆说的，反正我就会蹦蹦跳跳地去作我的想法去了。毕竟有人赞同我了！~that means everything for me .  

不知道你。

cool... fight on for your dreams instead of letting others convince you on the contrary.

DDDCCC

in fact, i am in 进退两难！！！anyway, thanks you guys again.

delphine18

以下是引用Dole在2005-4-7 1:14:00的发言：

如果我想做一件事情，我妈说不我爸说不我男朋友说不，我朋友说不，但如果我走在马路上突然听到一个路过人说了句do it。管他是和街对面的dog说的还是和他老婆说的，反正我就会蹦蹦跳跳地去作我的想法去了。毕竟有人赞同我了

楼上是MM还是GG啊？男朋友和朋友对你有区别吗？

fenghsu

楼上的MM好眼力啊！

lucsh

什么好眼力啊,肯定是个女的说

lucsh

以下是引用ygjm在2005-4-6 13:40:00的发言：

不知楼主毕业后的打算如何, 个人感觉top5的MBA与其他top10之间的差距不会比top10与top20以后的大, MBA毕竟只是个过程而不是结果, 在你毕业3年或5年以后更多得是看你的工作而不是学校的差别了.

感觉错误.只有BIG 3 即H/S/W是无可争议的老大.当然TOP5,M7等等不一而足,但领先效应递减无疑

delphine18

以下是引用lucsh在2005-4-7 22:12:00的发言：

什么好眼力啊,肯定是个女的说

因为他的头像是GG啊 故有此问

Duke2006

以下是引用DDDCCC在2005-4-6 5:34:00的发言：

to Duke2006,

Sorry, I hope what I wrote does not make you feel upset or unhappy. As you are a pride member of Fuqua, I sincerely hope you can talk more about Duke, the job offerings, the intership, the life at Fuqua and what you can take away from Duke and what you can contribute to Duke. For me, I just want to say some words in my heart and I dont want to evulate which school is better than other schools. I believe everyone has their own dream school, right? So, what I mean is to choose the school fit for me, not talk about the ranking in the business world.

If what I wrote make you unhappy, I apologize. But, since you are a current student, I hope you can give me some suggestion. Many appreciated!

To be honest, to see Duke being treated as a "back-up" really makes me a little bit depressed. But what I said to you is sincere. MBA is a huge investment, you must be careful about it.

Expectation determines whether you will regret. Suppose you accept the offer and come to Duke, you will always say to yourself "I should have been in the classroom of Harvard, not here." This will make you unhappy for two years, even for whole life.

I can not deny that HBS is absolutely better than Fuqua. Now, if I were you, I will ask myself "Is Duke good enough for me?" or "Whether only HBS is good enough for me?" if your answer is "No" and "Yes" respectively, then I think you should wait for another year and try to get an offer from your dream school.

But everything has its pros and cons. If you choose to reject Duke and try next year, the cons are as follows:

• MBA is devaluing very fast. One year may make a big difference in the job market.


• You can not make sure that you can get an offer from your dream school.


• Tuition is increasing annually.

I don't know how risk averse you are, so it's your own job to make the decision. Don't just follow the suggestions of others. The only decision you made that you will not regret is the one made by yourself (following your heart.)

Anyway, congrats on your offer! To know more about Duke and Fuqua, pls go to http://forum.chasedream.com/dispbbs.asp?boardID=13&ID=71550&page=12

Good luck!

fenghsu

话不能说的这么绝对！

外国的学校很DIVERSITY的！

[此贴子已经被作者于2005-4-8 17:50:45编辑过]

Dole

强烈抗议以上社团成员拿我的性别作为玩笑话题从而使得此帖的根本中心思想脱离正确轨道同时再次声明以头像区别性别是一个完全幼稚且无趣的想法特别是在这个让人郁闷的时刻看到关于有其他有关本人性别的猜想并设计国外某些特殊团体的话题。同理可证那些在所有英特网上注册资料的时候填写完全一致的真实个人资料的人都需要接受一定程度的物理治疗。

这里对尚处在郁闷期的DDDCCC贴主表示深深的歉意。

DOLE