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好久没写作文了,接下去争取每天写一篇。求各位狠批!
题目是TPO2的独立写作,do you agree or disagree the following statement? always telling the truth is the most important thing in any relationships between people.
Whether a man tells the truth or not is a traditional way to decide if he is good to be your friends since the acient China. There is a story that a kid keeps lying about the arrival of wolves again and again then finally got punished named "Wolves are coming" reminding people of the importance of being honest. But I don't think it's necessary to tell the truth all the time.
For instance, it's better to tell a white lie to a person than to tell them the truth. I can remember the catastrophic earthquake which stroke Sichuan Provence in 2008. A little girl was found 28 hours after the disaster, but unfortunately she would never see her parents again. In an interview with the doctor who was taking care of the little girl, the doctor said that she could do nothing but to tell her the her parents were in another hospital far away from here and would come back in the future because the stable emotion was significant in recovering. Not telling the truth was for her better recovery.
Another reason for being dishonest is that truth hurts. It actually happens a lot in people's lives. When someone who has a crush on a beautiful lade and confesses to her, she may tell him that she is sorry and she has got a boyfriend while her actual thought could be: I will never date a man like you. You can’t blame that lady for telling a lie. In the opposite, I appreciate for her being considerate, because what she says won’t stop him from having a bad day though, at least won’t make him feel worse.
People sometimes develop a habit of not telling the truth, for example--parents. I’d have to say that I’ve been “deceived” by my mom before. I can remember that when I was a kid my mother always told me to eat the last several dumplings and I was always happy to. Now I understand that it is one of the mothers’ most frequently used lies: “I’m fine.”, “I’m not hungry.”, “I’m not tired.” and “I have enough money.” .Can you blame moms for doing that out of love?
I do believe being honest is an important thing in human relationships no matter with strangers or relatives, but it doesn’t mean people should tell the truth all the time.
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