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非牛人的choice

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楼主
发表于 2009-4-20 14:49:00 | 只看该作者

非牛人的choice

女,21,非牛人,小本,外资行工作一年

比大多数人早上学,所以一直纠结,继续纠结,是出国还是工作

当初毕业其实想在家好好考试准备出国的事,一年后出去读书

出于偶然进了一家小外资行,hr职务,虽然不上senior,不过银行小,觉得一年学到了不少东西,也能独当一面;今年有换岗的机会,做业务部门去,觉得对以后跳槽有一点帮助

年薪税前十万左右,马马虎虎过得去,还算满足,不过一直挂着出国这档子事,不能释怀;今年招聘,自己删了一批海归,似乎在自我扼杀,很是后怕

只是女生,不想很outstanding,只想单纯地完成出国的心愿,不过很担心出国后工作的出路

非上海人,上海读书工作5年,很漂泊,很想买房子安定下来

不过父母工薪阶层,买了房子出不了国;出了国买不了房子

日子过得太快,年复一年,越来越犹豫自己的决定,工作似乎越长,就越舍不得取舍

大家建议什么时候出国是比较好的时候呢?

沙发
发表于 2009-4-20 18:03:00 | 只看该作者
我也有同样的迷茫啊
板凳
发表于 2009-4-20 20:33:00 | 只看该作者

不过父母工薪阶层,买了房子出不了国;出了国买不了房子

Do you mean you need your parents to pay for part of your tuition / living expenses? In general, studying abroad is much cheaper than buying an apartment. This doesn't sound like a legitimate trade-off...

地板
 楼主| 发表于 2009-4-21 14:57:00 | 只看该作者

房子首付而已,或者出国或者付房子首付,对于工薪家庭,还是有些杯水车薪的

5#
发表于 2009-4-21 15:15:00 | 只看该作者
3 questions:
- Why do you wanna go abroad?
- Where do you wanna go?
- What do you want to study in another country?

If I know the answers of the 3 questions above, I'd ask myself the following: Do I need to buy an apartment within the next 5 years? Or do I need to go abroad within the next 5 years?
In 5 years, you'll be 26. I'd naively think it's okay for a 26-year-old not to own any property. When you're 26, you'd probably want to buy a property soon (by 30, I guess)
When you're 26, you may not want to go abroad anymore. So if you don't go soon, you probably won't consider this idea anymore

Hope it helps
6#
 楼主| 发表于 2009-4-26 11:19:00 | 只看该作者

Answers:
- only a target
- US. or Hongkong
- Finance for marjor,but cultural xperience for more

Thanks for your help.

It works!

Maybe I just need a littele more courage to give up something that acctually means nothing.




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7#
发表于 2009-4-27 14:56:00 | 只看该作者

要不要考虑晚两年出去? 一来更有竞争力, 二来也能存一点钱

找一个志同道合要出国的男朋友. 买房的事等回国两人一起想办法.

8#
 楼主| 发表于 2009-4-29 15:39:00 | 只看该作者

呵呵 我也想呀~~ 可是难呀~~ 艾。。。

9#
发表于 2009-4-29 19:02:00 | 只看该作者
今年招聘,自己删了一批海归,似乎在自我扼杀,很是后怕

You know the identity of hai gui itself doesn't add value right? People are highly sought after because of the value they bring, and that's manifested through track records

Maybe I just need a littele more courage to give up something that acctually means nothing.

You mean giving up the option to own a house now? Or the option to have overseas experience?
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