TPO2 求指点

zacks321 · 发表于 2012-2-28 15:55:58

Do you agree or disagree with the following statement? Always telling the truth is the most important consideration in any relationship. Use specific reasons and examples to support your answer.

There are many factors that should be taken into consideration when people are handling relationship with others,such as honesty,loyalty,undestanding etc.But what is the most important consideration,which lead a general controversy.Many peple who are arguing for always telling the truth is the most important element hold the opinion that honesty is the basic of realationship.As opposed to widely accepted I believe that to be active is the first concern in any relationship.
Honesty means always telling the truth,it's absolutely good to be honest with others,but not all the time.Imagine that when I talk with someone who is evil or I don not like,should I just tell him the truth whatever he asked suh as my adrress,my phone number?This demonstrate the unquestionable fact that sometime telling the truth may hurt oneself,on the other hand it will also hurt other people.For instance,some family members of a cancer patient may not want the patient kown how much time he left which may frustrate him.so they will ask the doctor to conceal it from the patient.It's realy hard to tell someone the truth which will hurt him.All of these demonstrate the unquesqionable fact that some time you should not keep telling the truth cause it maybe harmful to you or others.
To be active is as sigificant as honesty.First,to be active is an easy way to creat a favourable atmosphere which make all the people more comfortable.For example,when people comuniticate with those who are too shy to talk,if people choose to passive,then it will be embarrassed.The more frequently we communicate with others the more harmonious the realationship between us is.Only through to be active can we have more chance to communicate with others to build a better relationship.
To be active It is also notably effective for dealing relationship.There are many sufficient proofs to support this point.Abraham Lincoln the 16th president of United States who hold word-wide fame by keeping the USA from seceding.He is such a charming leader who enven had only a little formal education.So active was he when he gave speeches to civilians which inspired so many Amaricans to fight for their own country.Martin Luther King is also a good example who is unusually active when he comunicate with others.Instances as these are too numerous to list.It seems that every good communicator
or leader is extraodinarily active.
Though telling the truth is significant,however we need to take care if the truth will going hurt people.To the contrary to be active will create a great atmosphere and make communication more efficient.Obviously all the analysis comform a remarkable consequence that always telling the truth can not compete with to be active when others's feelings are taken into consideration.

TPO2 求指点

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