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发表于 2012-2-18 04:36:06 | 只看该作者 回帖奖励 |倒序浏览 |阅读模式
第一个offer。保底学校的,Louisiana Tech (不管怎样,还挺开心的。)
非PHD, 是DBA 的CIS 方向。
4年学期,第一年末就要candidacy exam 第三年开始论文
周3面,今天给的结果。
1年$15,000,无暑假extra money。
(已收2份拒信,还有3学校无消息。)

关于PHD的所见所闻:
我人在北美,见到很多PHD求学生涯中痛苦不堪的朋友,很多中途就master毕业的哥们。当然也有很多如鱼得水的xdjm。4、5年后,有人回国做了老师,有人留下做了老师,有一些成了学术大牛!有很多成为美国大学的一个老师。无论英文在咱们看来,讲的多好,都有学生说听不懂中国老师的英语。说中国老师只能用PPT,讲课也不生动等等。据我了解,他们的薪水税后在东岸大概4000不到。有一些一年只拿9个月薪水,暑假学校给你research的钱另外计算。(请大家谅解,这都是我身边的例子,还是大多数的。)

我自己的情况是:
女,国内G9管理本科GPA3.6;日企小manager工作4年拿到中国区老板推荐信;二流美国MBA今年毕业GPA3.76。学习和经历比较复杂(不能说太多,怕被人肉)总之MIS,HR,Marketing 都做过。

期望:想做人生最后一搏,回国创业(有部分资源)
现实:已婚,还没有孩子。
         绿卡排期快到了(预计1年内,也说不准),所以暂时不能回去。
         想在美国做生意,(无绿卡,F1开公司是违法)
         接下来准备着手找工作(原日企日本老板愿意推荐美国分公司,
         但是日渐衰败的底特律不是我的期望)(内心不想打工。而且就业市场目前也不好)

矛盾:读PHD还是不读?
        读了有身份保证,按照我的性格,也能耐住寂寞,读出来!
        以后或许就变成上面我所说的那些朋友中的一个。
        不读了,回国,前途未卜,婚姻可能也会收到影响。

大家千万轻拍啊,我很纠结,也很烦恼!
求指点,求讨论!
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沙发
发表于 2012-2-18 04:52:57 | 只看该作者
cong! But could I ask whether DBA s staff or student? N as I know, F1 s legal to open company in the US.
板凳
发表于 2012-2-18 05:03:58 | 只看该作者
第一个offer。保底学校的,Louisiana Tech (不管怎样,还挺开心的。)
非PHD, 是DBA 的CIS 方向。
4年学期,第一年末就要candidacy exam 第三年开始论文
周3面,今天给的结果。
1年$15,000,无暑假extra money。
(已收2份拒信,还有3学校无消息。)

关于PHD的所见所闻:
我人在北美,见到很多PHD求学生涯中痛苦不堪的朋友,很多中途就master毕业的哥们。当然也有很多如鱼得水的xdjm。4、5年后,有人回国做了老师,有人留下做了老师,有一些成了学术大牛!有很多成为美国大学的一个老师。无论英文在咱们看来,讲的多好,都有学生说听不懂中国老师的英语。说中国老师只能用PPT,讲课也不生动等等。据我了解,他们的薪水税后在东岸大概4000不到。有一些一年只拿9个月薪水,暑假学校给你research的钱另外计算。(请大家谅解,这都是我身边的例子,还是大多数的。)

我自己的情况是:
女,国内G9管理本科GPA3.6;日企小manager工作4年拿到中国区老板推荐信;二流美国MBA今年毕业GPA3.76。学习和经历比较复杂(不能说太多,怕被人肉)总之MIS,HR,Marketing 都做过。

期望:想做人生最后一搏,回国创业(有部分资源)
现实:已婚,还没有孩子。
         绿卡排期快到了(预计1年内,也说不准),所以暂时不能回去。
         想在美国做生意,(无绿卡,F1开公司是违法)
         接下来准备着手找工作(原日企日本老板愿意推荐美国分公司,
         但是日渐衰败的底特律不是我的期望)(内心不想打工。而且就业市场目前也不好)

矛盾:读PHD还是不读?
        读了有身份保证,按照我的性格,也能耐住寂寞,读出来!
        以后或许就变成上面我所说的那些朋友中的一个。
        不读了,回国,前途未卜,婚姻可能也会收到影响。

大家千万轻拍啊,我很纠结,也很烦恼!
求指点,求讨论!
-- by 会员 smilecrystal (2012/2/18 4:36:06)


婚姻最重要!

我身边有这样一个事。 我的一对加拿大朋友是农场主,身价七八百万加币是有的。盖房子就花了50多万元,当然土地是自己的,没有花钱。
丈夫 去年10月去世了,年仅41岁,留下了40岁的妻子,3个teenagers 孩子。

去年圣诞节的时候, 妻子带着3个孩子去墨西哥度假,玩的很开心。我看到了那个妻子在facebook上贴的一张照片。 这照片是妻子在沙滩上画的:一颗心被箭穿过。 心型上面写着“Cliff, I love you".
这是妻子对逝去丈夫的怀念和呼唤。

前几天情人节的时候, 那个妻子把丈夫的照片 post 到网上。

我想说的就是 - 即使我们赚得了全世界,也需要有真爱的人来分享。希望大家都能珍惜自己的爱人,每一天都为我们所拥有的感谢上帝。

搂住, 婚姻最重要。
地板
 楼主| 发表于 2012-2-18 05:08:02 | 只看该作者
DBA: Doctor of Business Administration, which is for students.
F1 开公司是违法的。。。
5#
 楼主| 发表于 2012-2-18 05:10:17 | 只看该作者
matthewliu1981,
非常感谢你的故事。
这真是得好好想想的!要真赔进去婚姻,值不值得。
要真给人生留个遗憾,会不会后悔。

谢谢你。
6#
发表于 2012-2-18 05:12:12 | 只看该作者
matthewliu1981,
非常感谢你的故事。
这真是得好好想想的!要真赔进去婚姻,值不值得。
要真给人生留个遗憾,会不会后悔。

谢谢你。
-- by 会员 smilecrystal (2012/2/18 5:10:17)



有真爱分享的幸福,才是真正的幸福。 以此共勉!
7#
发表于 2012-2-18 05:26:59 | 只看该作者
I am pretty sure that u r wron gin this point. u can consult any lawyer. Im pretty sure f1 students can build up their own companies. The company also can sponsor their own or others' eb1, eb2. I have these kinds of frnds. I also wanna set up one last year. It wont take that much trouble. If u really wanna know, u can ask any lawyers.
8#
 楼主| 发表于 2012-2-18 05:45:35 | 只看该作者
I am pretty sure that u r wron gin this point. u can consult any lawyer. Im pretty sure f1 students can build up their own companies. The company also can sponsor their own or others' eb1, eb2. I have these kinds of frnds. I also wanna set up one last year. It wont take that much trouble. If u really wanna know, u can ask any lawyers.
-- by 会员 fhr1988 (2012/2/18 5:26:59)



Yeap! You are right! Thank you very much!

Here is more infor I got:
Here is what I hear from some lawyers that makes
most sense to me (even most immigration lawyers do not know this very well,
surprisingly, so make sure that you call around):

1. F-1/H1 can start your own certain types of corporation. there are some
restrictions, though, for example, you cannot start a S-Corp which is perhaps
the best in terms of tax.

2. Very important! You cannot work for your own company. You can only be the
owner and have someone else who has work authorization to do all the work for
you. You can derive income from the profits made by your company as a
shareholder, but you cannot draw yourself a check as salary. In short, you can
ONLY earn money PASSIVELY, unless you have work authorization, which is
discussed below:

3. Your com can apply H-1b for yourself through your company. But I don't know
how likely it's going to be approved for a start-up. You CANNOT sponsor green
card for yourself.

Final caution from one immigration attorney. He thinks that although
theoretically F1's can start a company and earn income passively, but it could
cause problem for your green card application - would INS really believes you
never worked for your own company? If you are unlucky you may get picked on.
That's just his suggestion.
9#
发表于 2012-2-18 05:53:49 | 只看该作者
I am pretty sure that u r wron gin this point. u can consult any lawyer. Im pretty sure f1 students can build up their own companies. The company also can sponsor their own or others' eb1, eb2. I have these kinds of frnds. I also wanna set up one last year. It wont take that much trouble. If u really wanna know, u can ask any lawyers.
-- by 会员 fhr1988 (2012/2/18 5:26:59)




Yeap! You are right! Thank you very much!

Here is more infor I got:
Here is what I hear from some lawyers that makes
most sense to me (even most immigration lawyers do not know this very well,
surprisingly, so make sure that you call around):

1. F-1/H1 can start your own certain types of corporation. there are some
restrictions, though, for example, you cannot start a S-Corp which is perhaps
the best in terms of tax.

2. Very important! You cannot work for your own company. You can only be the
owner and have someone else who has work authorization to do all the work for
you. You can derive income from the profits made by your company as a
shareholder, but you cannot draw yourself a check as salary. In short, you can
ONLY earn money PASSIVELY, unless you have work authorization, which is
discussed below:

3. Your com can apply H-1b for yourself through your company. But I don't know
how likely it's going to be approved for a start-up. You CANNOT sponsor green
card for yourself.

Final caution from one immigration attorney. He thinks that although
theoretically F1's can start a company and earn income passively, but it could
cause problem for your green card application - would INS really believes you
never worked for your own company? If you are unlucky you may get picked on.
That's just his suggestion.
-- by 会员 smilecrystal (2012/2/18 5:45:35)


U can do co-work with other citizens or greencard holders. I know there r lots of chinese students doing their own business like that in California. But maybe some of them use their 27 months' opt as the working permit. Also another point s that u can apply eb1 for yourself as international partner in your own company. And my frnd s doing that now. U can search that in baidu or google there r some successful samples about opening a company n then apply the greencard for their own. Hoping the info can help u
10#
发表于 2012-2-18 06:52:03 | 只看该作者
怎么可能商科的PhD教师薪水不到4000呢?
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