我该怎么再重新开始啊！

Hi, you are not the only one here. I know people went to study in US mainly because they are not happy with their marriage or their work. Some of them are happy with their choice, but some of them are not so. From what you have described, I guess you are desperately looking for a change, a change of your current course of life. Studying abroad is one of the options for a change, but it may not be the only one. Asking yourself what it is that you need to change? What are the options you have? What are the pros and cons of the options? Then, you should be able to see whether the benefits of a foreign degree is worthy of all your efforts and sacrifices. Do not get me wrong here, in my opinion, studying abroad is self rewarding itself. It allows one to explore other culture, meet people, advance education and career, not to mention the language training benefit. However, everybody is different, you really should consider its downside, disorientation, stress, loneliness... before taking action.

Good luck with whatever you choose for your future!   

再次跟拥有中国婚姻思维的女性朋友说， 别觉得年纪， 婚史那么重要。 在国外这些都不那么重要， 只要你不发誓只找很中国化的中国男生。

在这个世界上， 一个女人的自信程度和对人生的乐观程度决定这个女人感情和事业上的命运。

牛比，说得好！

Hi, don't worry about the marriage. It's no big deal, in some ways, it's like the MBA applications. Some schools are suitable to you, some others perhaps not. Of course the joint MBA program won’t happen in the real marriage issue and the contract is only two years. J

In my opinion, it’s a good thing to you. At least you found out that man wasn’t your Mr RIGHT. You correct the marriage with the divorce, that’s all. Don’t put much pressure on yourself, if one day you meet another guy, and I’m sure he will understand and treat you as his princess.

For the MBA issue, I’d like to say : don’t think of it as an opportunity for the job change or promotion. To me, chasing an MBA in a foreign country is a unique experience. You can get to know the new cultures and make new friends. Isn’t it exciting? I have been in Europe for four years, and I’m changed a lot after having settled down here and I’m happy for this choice after my graduation; now I’m ready to chase a new dream in America, because my life style is ‘on the road’. For me, the experience is the most important thing. When you get old, you’ll be happy to be a woman with many stories, no matter with good ones or bad ones.

But before making the choice, think of the life style you want to have. Good luck.