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Topic: Do you agree or disagree with the following statement?
Classmates are a more important influence than parents on a child's
success in school. Use specific reasons and examples to support your
answer.
I disagree with the statement. When a child goes to school, two kinds
of people influence him greatly: his classmates and parents. I think
they have equal important influence on his success in school.
Undoubtedly, classmates have great impact on children. For example, in
school, the students excellent in studying are often praised by
teachers. Teachers grant them all kinds of privileges such as being
leaders of class, being more concerned. Children often envy these
students very much, imagining they will become them also. So they will
work hard, thus more possible to get progress. In school, outstanding
students are usually surrounded by their classmates, no matter they
excel in studying, sports or in dancing, singing. Because of their
eminence, other children are willing to follow their actions and words.
When children have these in mind, they will walk towards right
directions and will get improvement.
However, parents also have significant functions on their child's
success in school. People may believe what children do in school is
beyond the administration of parents', on the contrary, parents have
great influence on their children in success. The most important point
is that parents create circumstance for their children. Parents should
guarantee a comfortable, relaxed, warm, and harmonious conditions for
their children. If parents often blame their children or they fight
with each other, it will distract their children's attentions when they
are in class.
Parents can encourage their children in spirit aspects. When children
are in difficulty or upset because of school's experience, parents can
inquire for reasons and work on these problems with them. For example,
children may feel disappointed at the failure of one exam, or they may
be under huge stress of the possible criticism of their parents'.
Parents should show extra (additional) care for their child at this
time, helping analyze wrong questions, concluding the causes of
failure, and encouraging them to work hard for good scores at the next
time.
Parents can care for children's morality. Parents can instruct children
to pursue good characters such as loyalty, open-mind, kindness,
diligence and optimism. For instance, children may show hostility or
envy to some classmates since their grades are better than theirs or
they spoil their pens or something else. Parents should help them keep
right minds to others' successes and tell them their successes are from
industrious work. Parents can tell their children that if they want to
get success, they must pay out efforts. Additionally, parents can tell
their child that they should forgive their classmates when they damage
their stationery by accident. By doing this, they can make more good
friends and are more welcome in school.
In conclusion, classmates will influence children because there is
competition among them. On the other hand, parents will affect their
child on spirit and morality. Parents should try to build a warm family
atmosphere to keep their child growing healthily.
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