和Sinoyuan的私人谈话，其他人请做观众，不要发言，谢谢！

James_007 · 发表于 2005-9-1 20:58:00

我也想再问一句，Sinoyuan 对中欧的批评就公开

的发表在Chasedream上，既然他对长江有更多批评，

那为什么我要他也公开在Chasedream发表一下，他却

不肯，而要私下跟我谈？

在偶看来他还是有意的，并不只是性子直。

我只想说，言论谨慎，公平，尤其在CD这里。

才不会惹争议。

leisure1221 · 发表于 2005-9-4 23:59:00

同意11楼的，己所不欲，勿施于人！

klipper · 发表于 2005-9-9 00:38:00

Hey guys. I'm a new comer here. Glad to see you all.

I see lots of aguments between CEIBS and CKGSB. Most of them make
sense and some hit the points directly. It makes me love this place
immediately. You guys are very open and smart.

However this thread surprise me a little because the discussions went
into personal. I don't think it's a good way to speak out loudly that
you are angry with somebody. People do NOT think you are innocent nor
you enemy will feel guilty. You only yell at everybody and let them
know you are losing temper, nothing more. Even worse your friends and
people who care about you may feel hurt.

Of course Sinoyuan has his own problem, and he may lose important
things because of that. But nobody is 100% perfect. BBS is
suppose to be fairand free to everybody. If you have some points, make
it; if you have good logic, show it; If you don't think other people
are right, state your case and prove it. You can NEVER win in an
argument just proving others are wrong, you need to have your points.

I am talking too much and let me finish it by quoting some words here.

皮埃尔·S·杜邦（1790）：

先生们，尖刻的讨论很容易将人们引导到这样一种令人讨厌的习惯上去：即假定别人动机不良。在动机问题上宽宏大量是非常必要的；应该相信人们的本意都是好的，而且的确是这样。不高明的逻辑学家不自觉地犯下的罪过，比坏人有意地去干的还要多。

purplekitty · 发表于 2005-9-9 10:34:00

以下是引用klipper在2005-9-9 0:38:00的发言：

People do NOT think you are innocent nor you enemy will feel guilty. You only yell at everybody and let them know you are losing temper, nothing more. Even worse your friends and people who care about you may feel hurt.

u can NEVER win in an argument just proving others are wrong, you need to have your points.

I cannot agree with you any more, guy. These words really make sense. So cheer up, everybody. Wish all of us even brighter future!

和Sinoyuan的私人谈话，其他人请做观众，不要发言，谢谢！

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