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发表于 2008-1-15 13:09:00 | 显示全部楼层
After MBA, you will lose salary 36万 (50-60k US$);
near 30 years old, then you have to strugle for finding job, H1B, greencard, finding bf, and raising baby, etc.
so that there is a possibility that MBA will ruin your whole personal life; 
I guess that you just a regular girl next door because PPMM with 年薪18万 should be married or engaged (I hope you don't mind.); 

I have to say, because of your age, the next two years may be your best time to sell yourself; after that, things will go down-hill;
if you cannot someone (bf/husband) who will share some of duties; then MBA won't worth.

Of course, if there is your gg going with you, then MBA is good choice.  Sunny florida is one of the largest state (population) in US, nearby big cities, miami, orlando, and atlanta.

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发表于 2008-1-16 01:48:00 | 显示全部楼层
楼主mm,
I know that it is hard to hear something you don't like.  What is your parents' opinion? 

Your height at 175cm is actually bad for you because it limits your choice.  Tall girls want to meet tall, smart, wealthy, and caring gentlman.  But the odd is against them. But, everthing is possible.  My cousin is pretty girl with a height of 178cm.  She was chased by her husband (he is 188cm) since high school (in 1982 !!!).  She was from "hu he hao te" and took her undergraduate in PKU;  her husband followed her by going to Tsing hua; He went to PKU almost every week to send her grapes.  Sometimes, there was another guy who tried to date my cousin; He just waved his fists and said "Please talk fast, I am waiting outside now." or " I can wait because I am not busy today.  XXX, can I borrow your New Concept English book? I have an exam tomorrow." He told me that it took him 8 years before they were married.   Today, this kind of men are rare.  For 30 years-old 处男, you'd better learn these tricks -dedication and shameless (or fearless).

But most gg (or mm) won't have such dedication, they chased girls for a while and if they cannot receive their anticipation, they will quit because they felt it not worth - what is difference bewteen a gf 165cm and a gf 170cm?  For example, I am 184 cm, when I looked gf, I didn't care too much about her height as long as she wasn't too short.  Of course, my classmates who are short always want to find a tall gf. 

For single mm or 30 years-old 处男, your dream gf/bf are unlikely to chase you (You have waited for 10 years, right?); so that you have to chase them.  It is you to chase the dream; it is not the dream to chase you.
Good luck. 

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