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121 Some people trust their first impressions about a person's character because they believe these judgments are generally correct. Other people do not judge a person's character quickly because they believe first impressions are often wrong. Compare these two attitudes. Which attitude do you agree with? Support your choice with specific examples.

In the daily life, people always face some question. The analysis of which will assist them to make a wise decision. One of such intriguing issues is whether the first impression is correct enough to judge a person's character. After pondering this question in many occasions, I oppose this statement and I will elaborate my view in detail as follows.

To begin with, the chief reason that would be presented to develop my view is that the first impressions that people make depend largely to the appearance of people during their social activities. However, It is unfair to judge a person by appearance since people inherit their appearance from their parents and they can do nothing to change their appearance. Obviously, the first impressions from the appearance would contribute to wrong evaluating people.

Next, the first impressions just tell, if any, the superficial information about people. People's characters and abilities are complex and different. It is hard to get to know a person clearly in the first meeting. Some people look foolish while they have a wise idea. Furthermore, Some people feel awkward and embarrasses when facing stranger. How can we judge a person only by the first impression?

Admittedly, the first impressions indeed reflect some aspects of a person in some case. However,  this case is so rare and specific that  people can not apply it to the general situation. Besides that,  Judging only through the first impressions, people are impossible to make friends with those who have some talent in one aspect while their behaviors are so strange, thus significantly limit  people’s network. Obviously, considering its huge negative aspects, the minor and specific exception are not worth noting.

To sum up, according to what I present above, the first impression cannot provide the accurate information about a person. Therefore, people should avoid judging people by the first  impressions.

[此贴子已经被作者于2004-12-18 11:56:41编辑过]