[求助]，一个在美国27岁妈妈读商科硕士与家庭异地的纠结

jiandaobu

早婚早育好啊 …………

-- by 会员 maurise (2011/5/17 20:30:25)

早育好啊，年龄越大，越发觉早育的好处。非常羡慕Rufus这样自己还是英俊潇洒的年纪，儿子已经开始学习泡妞了，唉，可惜我这辈子是没希望了。

maurise

早婚早育好啊 …………

-- by 会员 maurise (2011/5/17 20:30:25)

早育好啊，年龄越大，越发觉早育的好处。非常羡慕Rufus这样自己还是英俊潇洒的年纪，儿子已经开始学习泡妞了，唉，可惜我这辈子是没希望了。

-- by 会员 jiandaobu (2011/5/17 21:46:42)

只想早育 不想早婚 该咋办…………

jiandaobu

好办啊，找个愿意帮你生的，不逼着你结婚的。

adaadaadalee

好办啊，找个愿意帮你生的，不逼着你结婚的。

-- by 会员 jiandaobu (2011/5/17 21:53:15)

。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。虽然我很想骂你
但是，确实是个办法

jiandaobu

你火气越来越大了。

wwu2010

我现在和几乎一样的情况，只是没小孩，我现在也在美国，我是H4 来的，你可以找我私聊

shabenfan

In your case, Deferring to next year should be perfectly fine. Just take care your kid. Maybe next year, you would be admitted to better program closer to your home. No program could guarantee any job prospects after graduation, but family is something you could grab now!

shakra

楼主，不如把你爸妈搬过来照顾孩子被？解决问题又不是非要在1里硬是变个2出来？

kk最近 男女欢娱乎？

-- by 会员 2012man (2011/5/17 13:50:49)

这也是个可行的办法。我也考虑让我妈过来，和我一起带孩子（总之我不想现在和刚来的儿子分开）。但总感觉一边辛苦读书，一边心里有孩子，心不定。我还是一个比较适合全心全意做一件事的人。。。

pumpkin

Bless 楼主 其实这个时候没有错误的决定，但会有个取舍。。。人生难事多呀

shakra

In your case, Deferring to next year should be perfectly fine. Just take care your kid. Maybe next year, you would be admitted to better program closer to your home. No program could guarantee any job prospects after graduation, but family is something you could grab now!

-- by 会员 shabenfan (2011/5/18 5:36:50)

Hey shabenfan, can you give me more clues on why you said defering to next year is perfectly fine? You think I can get the admission next year?
This program has100% job replacement since 2006, with competitive starting salary. And usually it's hard for my major to locate jobs in USA, that's why I am so 纠结。。。