越来越纠结。。。去还是不去。。。

shaorubing

发现cd里，心里扭曲的女的还真多，自己嫁不出去，还要趁火打劫把别人也拆了。这啥心里啊？尼姑也慈悲为怀！

lz这答案是明白着的，一个mba，你想什么时候申就可以什么时候申，而婚姻，不是你想什么时候有就什么时候有的。

根本就不是楼里某些女的在那扯蛋什么，top3里的男人多得事，要是为了找男人做爱，你随便拉，婚姻跟找异性是两码事。

现在就是谁愿意为谁先做雷锋了。我认为这个社会上，男人在未来能承担的风险比女人要大，女人没必要去承担这个风险的时候，先不必太冒进。

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我一个朋友，女性，以前是系统关系上的，她当年申的也是top3，后来去了，毕业后到了hk,至今未婚。原先的男友留在了北京，事业如日中天结婚生子。
我这朋友还在hk痛并快乐着。一次我这为朋友的前男友去hk，顺路看了她，她除了哭肿眼，没说任何话。她至今待着前男友送她的钻戒。

-- by 会员 2012man (2011/3/6 12:40:12)

你怎么知道你那个朋友如果不去top3就一定会和原先的男友生活的风风火火？搞不好结婚后那个男如你般四处寻花问柳，女的正在家里大骂“早知道你是这种鸟人，老娘就出去读top3mba了！”

-- by 会员 kongkong57 (2011/3/6 14:12:28)

Yes, that is what I meant. If you do not go for MBA, there is always a chance that (almost surely) above situation happens; but if you go for MBA, not only you two might still be together, but you will say to yourself "you just made a decision years ago" and having a career and family, you won't regret at all. No doubt, just go for the MBA, once in your life-time!

narcisuss

Obviously, not telling LZ's BF about the application is a good way to hedge the risk of not being admitted and to save time during the application.

Now that LZ got the admission, you need the last move to complete the plan, dump him.

jarlin

翻了下LZ的旧帖，看来今年已经是第二次申请了。都2次申请了，内心的选择还不够明显吗？

sighhh

i would stay if i were u. 因为这句：跟他在一起大部分时间好开心。

b1y9r

怎么给我感觉这是一个特别大的坑，坑，坑啊，
有没有人同感啊

Knockoff

你号码多少？

haha, kongkong, i like women who have men's dating morals

去，学校就一个，男人多的是。另外问一下这个男人是top3吗？ （大家不要砸砖！）

-- by 会员 kongkong57 (2011/3/6 10:40:46)

-- by 会员 Knockoff (2011/3/6 13:21:43)

就是就是，咱多爷们啊！

-- by 会员 kongkong57 (2011/3/6 14:13:16)

cammela

你号码多少？

haha, kongkong, i like women who have men's dating morals

去，学校就一个，男人多的是。另外问一下这个男人是top3吗？ （大家不要砸砖！）

-- by 会员 kongkong57 (2011/3/6 10:40:46)

-- by 会员 Knockoff (2011/3/6 13:21:43)

就是就是，咱多爷们啊！

-- by 会员 kongkong57 (2011/3/6 14:13:16)

-- by 会员 Knockoff (2011/3/6 15:36:16)

好好，咱们集体去读书，出来挣钱养小白脸哈，肌肉猛男是我的
你们俩号码都短我，LOL

cammela

话说我觉得这贴是写手贴，不过我还是来玩玩

cammela

I vote you don't go. Making decisions for others is a skill; it takes practice. If this is the guy, then you have to compromise for the two of you. Congrats on finding him.

-- by 会员 jelt2359 (2011/3/6 12:04:38)

so it is always hard for you to give in? Mr Muscle? and that is why you are always single, hehe

Knockoff

ha? hard? give in?  it's just me or?

I vote you don't go. Making decisions for others is a skill; it takes practice. If this is the guy, then you have to compromise for the two of you. Congrats on finding him.

-- by 会员 jelt2359 (2011/3/6 12:04:38)

so it is always hard for you to give in? Mr Muscle? and that is why you are always single, hehe

-- by 会员 cammela (2011/3/6 15:50:51)