越来越纠结。。。去还是不去。。。

shemmiasun

LZ这问题在本质上和张爱玲阿姨的“红玫瑰”和“白玫瑰”是一样的，你不管选哪一个最后都会有后悔的时候。

所以，扔硬币吧，硬币还没落地的时候可能就会明白自己要什么。如果没有明白，那就认命，改干嘛干嘛，别过于纠结。

jianxinl6

lz跟bf坦白吧，这是迟早也必须去做的事情，也许他的回应能让你的一切纠结迎刃而解。

wyqmg2011

Wendy said: "lz, you might be right. i'm starting to figure that you didn't tell him about you mba approach because you know, subconsciously, that if you tell him everything, he will be able to make an impact on your decision. and that decision, will be against your better judgement. 'coz this man sounds very persuasive, a bit slippery if i'm to be more assertive-- i may know nothing about him but your hesitation in showing him and your relationship enough trust has said it all.

many people here are right. you know that answer even though you don't wanna admit. and, honestly, your relationship is already screwed from the moment you decided to make this big a decision by yourself. confront yourself as a start.   that answer's been in you all this time."
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Wow, WendyT, did you major in Psychology or work as a HR? Your analysis some sort of reminds me of 福尔摩斯. Very great logical reasoning.

Vanillamm

top3的offer，真羡慕。
要是我，我就去。两年算什么？这样都不愿意等，这个男的挺不靠谱。况且现在交通这么方便，一年让他飞过来两次，或者你暑假实习回国去实习，解决办法很多嘛。

maurise

翻页

maurise

top3的offer，真羡慕。
要是我，我就去。两年算什么？这样都不愿意等，这个男的挺不靠谱。况且现在交通这么方便，一年让他飞过来两次，或者你暑假实习回国去实习，解决办法很多嘛。

-- by 会员 Vanillamm (2011/3/7 0:43:42)

这想法真是…………感情是互相尊重互相理解 不是你进我退这么去算计的

Vanillamm

携隐说的好啊，顶一下。

Vanillamm

奇怪。。。我们支持的就是你情我愿，相互尊重啊，而不是像她bf这样去美国就分手。。。

你从哪里看出来相互算计？？

tinmilk

如果你认为他是一生的，那就不去，平平淡淡的过。
如果你有梦想，想获得更好的生活，就去