Dilemma

turtlechen

I'll say, open your mind. Let it be.     You may never keep a long distance relationship for 2 years.        Even few months will change a heart.

helenzhou

Objection!    Stay in two cities for 3 years and two countries for nearly one year, he is still my boyfriend and I am still his girlfriend.

nanyusz

以下是引用jeffa在2004-3-16 0:36:00的发言：
出去两年对双方都是很大的考验，两年可以发生太多的事情了

That's why I'm so concerned with. Two year, a big deal. Both of us are no longer young even now. And almost sure he will not go abroad....

nanyusz

Like everyone here, I spent day and night taking the test, writing essays, preparing interviews etc. Work hard at the same time. So many nights with almost no sleep. Because I was planning to going abroad, I lost my first BF. Because he was going abroad, I lost my second BF. And now, I really think I've found the right one, although we only know for very short time. But, when I    understand this fact, I also received my first offer. I agree MBA is for better life. But what is better life? Successful career? Happy family? Money? Position? It's really hard to balance. I don't think love can last very long    under long distance.    I    kept asking myself, will I give up any offer because of a man? Or will I give up a right man because of an offer? I really don't know the answer now. Or maybe just let time see it.....

seanql

study, work and love? They are just like three grass balls, you should balance them, preventing them from droping onto the ground.     Some foreigners handled them very well. Frankly, they are true successful people. If you are study or work machine without love, you will not feel happy and nobody will envy your life.     However, I agree with you, just let time see it...

didi_leee

如果是很好的学校，我选学校。如果是比学校更好的Mr. Right, 我选Mr. Right。

nanyusz

以下是引用didi_leee在2004-3-16 10:19:00的发言：
如果是很好的学校，我选学校。如果是比学校更好的Mr. Right, 我选Mr. Right。

Didi_leee, You are Didi_lee from M029, right？


OK. If for you, how you compare man with school?


For school, you say top 10, 20 or 30; but how you rank man? Top ??

flyingpiggy

why not marry him    and go abroad together since you feel so difficult to give up either?


Anyway, I suggest you not to try long distance love. It will be a long time hard time.

nanyusz

以下是引用flyingpiggy在2004-3-16 10:42:00的发言：
why not marry him    and go abroad together since you feel so difficult to give up either?



Anyway, I suggest you not to try long distance love. It will be a long time hard time.

Well, I agree with your opinion on long distance love. However, it is almost impossible for us to go together.

luoyx

以下是引用helenzhou在2004-3-16 3:51:00的发言：
Objection!    Stay in two cities for 3 years and two countries for nearly one year, he is still my boyfriend and I am still his girlfriend.

"He is still     my boyfriend" Mabye.


"I am still his girlfriend." Are you sure? hehe...