现在28了，明年再申请值得吗？

oookk

以下是引用shaway在2008-7-24 1:35:00的发言：

支持楼主。国内风气是不好，我也不知道这社会是出什么毛病了，可能是咱中国人的社会太江湖化。所谓“天下风云出我辈，一入江湖岁月催”。学校毕业时意气风发，一进入企业都觉得老员工是“古董”，没几年下来，看着大城市里年轻人就像麦苗一样冒出来，或漂亮，或英俊，或才气，或新锐，只有感叹“年年岁岁花相似，岁岁年年人不同”。马上危机感就来了。然后呢，身边还总有些或好心或无意的年长些的人提醒你，“赶紧嫁（娶）人吧”，“不小了”，“该安定下来了”，然后自己没准也觉得精力似乎不如几年前了，反应速度慢了，新东西层出不穷，兴趣没那么大了。。。转念一想，，唉，不如就从了吧。。。。

这方面国外是要好很多，社会有鼓励尝试的氛围，包容性强。在中国，唉，好多人是自己这么过，就非得见到别人也这么过心里才会舒服，因为别人如果过的和自己不一样，照国人潜意识里的逻辑，若不是自己错了就是别人错了，这两种都是他不能接受的。

楼主如果坚定要出国深造，就按西方人的逻辑活着吧，其实，管他什么生活逻辑，只要让自己活得心里舒坦就成。

谢谢了，如果我身边多点人这么想我就更舒坦了

坚持自己的想法，包括坚持寻找自己喜欢的那个，我想到头来都会有所得吧。

呵呵，看了大家的回复，突然间觉得自己有了活力，恩。。。应该要这样吧。我想我不再那么怕自己老了，还有希望大家也不要被年龄限制了自己想做的。

higeo

小弟是台北30岁大龄今年要申请，咱们好酒沈瓮底，一起努力吧！

helencheng30

3楼的话很鼓励，很价值

db5288

同感！

支持MM

支持自己~

macrohk

以下是引用xxcindycry在2008-8-5 23:39:00的发言：

这位童子很会就势引导~

  haha

Manda

在国内被人催婚应该挺正常的，我妈都开始催我25前生孩子算了，说是方便她照顾。不过我自己觉得我是宁愿闯一闯的，更何况我相信自己就算闯不出成功也会成长不少，比起过着顺从的日子要好点，呵呵！

我经历比较简单，可能没太大帮助哈~不过还是支持LZ姐姐~

不甜

我和楼主差不多一样大哈，也是准备这个年龄申请，觉得如果现在还在犹豫年龄问题的话，那想想五年后吧，你会因为今天的犹豫而后悔吗？如果答案是肯定的，那就赶紧行动吧！一起努力哦！

ForBeLoved

以下是引用davidlee0222在2008-8-13 9:44:00的发言：

It's not only about age,

and of course relationship is a huge consideration, especially for ladies

29 female MBA is everywhere in the States

the majority ladies studying MBA at this age, so nothing to worry about

a big part of them also bring their husband and kids

singles can have big chance to meet their life partners

since life balance is the ultimate goal for every complete individual, at least for the majority people in the States

but all and all

it's about your career

so here comes the classic question, why now?

or why later? how late?

it's about where and how have you climbed your "career ladder"

what issues and experiences made you here now, in terms of your career

and what's your goals

then after all these situation analysis and goal setting,

what's the "gap" between your current state and ideal goal now?

what can you do about this gap? on efficiency per se

can you do anything about this gap by yourself?

or you need some formal or informal educations or trainings

is that MBA?

what part of MBA do you need?

if you don't take MBA next year,

what'll happen in this period?

will you postpone your career progress?

or will it be more efficient on your career building?

it'll be an yes/no question

since once you clearly analyze your current situation and define your goals

you may realize it's pretty much a strict time frame that shows if you need to take MBA in '09 or either '10

if you run into a situation that seems ambiguous either 09 or 10 can you go for an MBA

you might want to dig deeper on your career assessment

since career is not about 1 year or 2 years plan

it should be organized as a whole

it's connected back to your college or even high school

and thrown over your career and family visions

just calm down and do some retionale for your life

you'll see yourself clearly

写的很好，thinking about it ...

ivyqxx

很鼓舞人的帖子，我和lz差不多大，也是被催婚，被催生，每周一次父母的电话，电话那头父母总是泪眼婆娑地说我“不懂事”，说他们“很寂寞，没有小孩可以带”，每次一提到这件事我总是郁闷地想摔电话。。。但是既然我们都已经选择了这条路，都不甘心人生就此平庸地度过，那么还去考虑什么年龄的问题呢？我认识一个女孩子，33岁还出国读mba,今年毕业找了份很不错的工作留在美国。我总觉得人的年龄在与心态，心态年轻了，人自然会年轻~